Baptists (and others)-- Wives submit to husbands? Wives and husbands equal partners?
- By tall73
- Denomination Specific Theology
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Sure. And there are a number of ways to approach resolving it, other than giving the person with a Y chromosome an automatic trump card.
A . Explain the various methods of resolving it.
B. Nothing is stated about chromosomes. The context is husbands and wives, which involves males and females, but also, a marriage relationship which God spells out as involving headship, and wives submitting to it:
Ephesians 5:23-2423 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. (NKJV)
For someone who claims to agree with mutual submission, you seem very hung up on arguing for women to submit in a way that men do not. It does come across as being concerned with keeping women submissive, under control.
I have talked about both. But the only portion you seem to have an issue with is the part of the Scriptures where wives are asked to submit in a way husbands are not:
Ephesians 5:23-2423 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. (NKJV)
You even admitted that they are asked to:They wouldn't even need to mention one-sided submission if they weren't in a patriarchal culture
But you wrongly claim it is cultural. There was no Roman cultural principle of recognizing the headship of Christ over the church, and the husband being called to headship of the spouse in a way that follows the example of Christ. That was not cultural. That was of God. and recorded in His word.
This is a thread discussing the biblical text. So it should not be a surprise that we are looking at what the Scriptures say. And as even you acknowledge they say:
Ephesians 5:23-2423 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. (NKJV)
So for you to say:
you seem very hung up on arguing for women to submit in a way that men do not. It does come across as being concerned with keeping women submissive, under control.
is incorrect. I am "hung up" on doing what the thread set out to do, discussing what the text says on the topic. And control is your word. It is not in the text. Submission by wives to the headship of the husband, who is to follow the example of Christ in love, IS in the text. And it is not at all in Roman culture.
As to controlling "women" I have one wife. I don't need to controle her. Nor do I need to convince her on these texts.
And she knows that it says I am to love her as Christ loves the church. And that gives me plenty to be hung up on, as it is a tall order.
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