Why are you getting jaw surgery? Do you have a medical problem or is the procedure wholly aesthetic? You can have the excess fat removed without messing with the bone structure. Long term obesity often requires plastic surgery to deal with excess skin. But your post has undertones of looksmaxxing which is another matter entirely.
There are things you can do to improve your appearance naturally.
Qoves covers this in their pieces or you can work with an image consultant. But your DNA is fixed and the face you see today will contribute to your children. Getting jaw surgery won’t necessarily improve your chances for finding a spouse or a girlfriend for that matter.
Most of the people in this forum are male. Some are six feet and some earn six figures and a few are both and they’re single. The majority have never dated or been alone for a while. Looks, height and resources aren’t the whole nor are they the qualities that will make anyone stay put long-term.
Funding a procedure out of pocket in the hope you’ll find someone is a recipe for disaster. If you were going to put money on anything it’s better spent on attire, communication and elocution. Women are typically drawn to a man’s presence more than his face and improvements in those areas will boost your confidence and aid your career.
There’s an inequitable price to plastic surgery and you have to know it before you begin. You can make alterations from the shoulders down that will remain in place if you maintain your weight and take care of yourself. But the face is different and every improvement has a cost you‘ll pay later on. That’s why no one ever has one procedure nor does it last as long. Altering one element brings others to the fore. You see the same with your weight loss. Your eyes and brows are more prominent now and will increase with age. You’d have to fill out the rest to be more symmetrical and maintain it.
Kim Kardashian is the perfect example of this principle. She was already attractive before the enhancements. In spite of her siblings attempts they don’t look the same. She looks like her mother and Kris Jenner’s recent facelift drove it home. She looks just like Kim. You can’t escape your DNA and the things that bother you today may be a godsend later on.
You weren’t single because of your obesity. Women date larger men all the time and men do the same.
~bella