Things that have & have not worked (Sexual Orientation) - No Debate/Discussion Thread
- By storypeddler
- Struggles with Sexuality
- 9 Replies
I think one thing all people, both Believers and unbelievers, need to consider and understand is that while sexual temptation is an extremely powerful pull, those who deal with and fight against it are not alone in their struggle. Alcoholics actually include, as part of their 12-step program, the acknowledgement that they are powerless to stop on their own and need strength from God to do so. Satan uses sex to attack many of us, but with others he uses alcohol,or drugs, or a violent temper, or bitterness, or greed, or unforgiveness, or pride, or a hundred other things. The Pharisees were great at looking down their noses in condemnation at "sinners" while their hypocrisy infuriated Jesus. He repeatedly called them out on their double standards. All of us---ALL OF US---are in a battle in this life. Every day we wake to face opportunities---opportunities to resist sin and serve Jesus or give in to sin and feel Satan condemning us as weak and undeserving of God's forgiveness. But God DOES forgive us. He picks us up, sees the brokenness in us, forgives us, strips the sin from us, holds us close, tells us He loves us, and then starts us down the road again. A hundred times if necessary. Or a thousand. Or a hundred-thousand. Ultimately, we only fail if we give up.Some members wonder what has and has not worked for others in their Struggles with Sexuality/Sexual Orientation. To allow for this, we have decided to start a thread where members can share positive or negative results with things they have tried for recovery.
Only Nicene believing Orthodox Christians may post here.
Discussion of other member's posts are not permitted - this is not a discussion thread. It is to share your personal experiences only. This thread allows for one post per member on any one topic/experience.
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When reading the responses of other members, keep in mind that each one of us are individuals. What works for one member may or may not work for another member. Research out what your options are, and ask as many questions as you can about any treatment available before choosing it.
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I have heard it said that since we all fall, and we all do, the important thing is make sure we fall toward the cross, because that is where our hope lies. In my own life, I have found that the less I give sin or the temptation to sin a foothold, the less struggle I have against it. It isn't always easy, and I have fallen just like everyone else. But the closer we move to God, the less Satan's devious schemes and temptations have any effect. Spending time in God's word and prayer absolutely strengthen us for sure. I think, in the end, it comes down to two things. First, if I fall into sin, I go to God, acknowledge my weakness and sin, and ask Him to forgive me. Because I have trusted Jesus as my Savior, God will ALWAYS forgive a seeking heart. Second, I renew my commitment to follow after God's righteousness in all I do, I set my face forward, and I start off again on the path He has set before me. Bottom line is that ultimately Satan cannot defeat me. ALL of my sins have already been paid for. If I stumble or fall, forgiveness is there for me. I can start over like I have never sinned because it isn't my righteousness God sees in me but that of Jesus. When God looks at me, He sees me through the blood of Jesus, and I stand unblemished by sin.
For me, I resist sexual sin the same way I resist any other sin I have a tendency toward---by drawing closer to God and resisting Satan. Remember, folks, as Believers we are in this for the long haul. Sin is no longer our master. Satan has lost. We just have to keep fighting till the final buzzer.
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