Unity in the Church.
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Oh, what books are in your New Testament?
If you are not going to answer my questions, why should I answer yours?
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Oh, what books are in your New Testament?
thank youOf course you are.
You are not perfect, so you are, simply as a matter of inevitability, doing something wrong.
Therefore, stop asking that question and start asking a more fruitful question(s). For example, the word "wrong" can have to meanings, one more and one efficacious. The question, "Have I done something that is immoral?" is a MUCH different question than, "Have I done something that is ineffective?" The first question is going to bring on guilt and shame and guilt and shame rarely help anyone solve a problem objectively or effectively. The second question can facilitate a goal-oriented response and that might contribute to improving the many problems existing within you and your marriage. Your wife's problems are not yours to solve. Thinking you can or should solve her problems may be one of the things you've done wrong. That's not a moral wrong, though. That is an ineffective wrong, not a moral wrong.
Think of it this way: the popular tele-counselor Dr. Phil often asks his victim'sa very simple question. He asks them a bunch of questions and lets them tell their stories, and as they do so the audience increasingly sees the inanity of the game show participant's life. When the obviousness of the inanity reaches a critical point Dr. Phil springs the infamous question, "Why's that working for you?" And, of course, the other person has that momentary introspective look and answers, "I guess it's not."
In all the many years I was a counselor I rarely happened upon a client who did not already know if and when their behavior was immoral. No one needs to be told yelling epithets at a spouse is morally wrong. No one needs to be told rape, battery, theft, etc. are morally wrong. A few, occasionally, need that explained to them but most of counseling has absolutely nothing to do with morality. They better question is always "How is what you are currently doing helping you achieve your goals?" or "How is what you are currently doing help you achieve the life you would like to obtain?"
The answers to those questions mean you must first know what your goals are.
If you do not know where you are going, then you most definitely will not get there. It's not rocket science, but the simplicity and value of that principle often escapes people. If you're moralizing, then stop it. On the occasion that you do err morally the prescription is very plain and already known: apologize! Or, if you're interested in a more thorough response the confess the wrongdoing, purpose not to repeat the behavior and replace it with more godly alternatives, make amends wherever possible and ask for forgiveness (and receive it when given). You already know this. On the occasion you try something that does not work then, again, the prescription is readily available: chalk it up to an ineffective action, something that didn't get you where you wanted to go and try something else.
Guard your mind against "Nothing I do will ever make a difference!" and train yourself to say, "Well, that didn't work as well as I thought i might so let me try something else."
1 Corinthians 10:23
All things are permitted, but not all things are of benefit. All things are permitted, but not all things build people up.
Moralizing yourself into guilt, shame, and remorse is permitted, but it is not very beneficial and does not edify you. Accepting the fact that you, me, your wife, Ricky, Lucy, Bert, Ernie, and everyone else is a sinner is a reality that everyone should accept. Once accepted, the power the Christian has facing sin to overcome it in the otherwise ordinary circumstances of life can be enormously empowering.
Set some goals. Set a few easily accomplished ones that prospectively will move you toward solving the problems alluded to in the op OR moving you, personally, toward a position where you are better able to do so. Set some moderately distant goals and set some goals that are more over-arching and will take time to accomplish. Work them all a little at a time. Review them periodically to 1) measure progress and 2) make adjustments wherever needed (because mistakes will be made).
I'm curious to hear what people have to say about the things they are devoted to: sports, family, job, hobby, etc. I'd also be curious to hear what motivates that devotion.
Of course, there are similarities and dissimilarities between such devotion and Christian faith, and yes, we can discuss those as well. But I'm not interested in arguments striving to claim that such similarities prove a subconscious desire for the spiritual.
It means more than one.Question. What does plurality mean?
Successive.Successive ages or unique concurrent ages?
Could be.Or both somehow?
Good question.What is the point of the Lord building our character here?
Right. That's the process of sanctification. Check out How to grow in faithWe are destined for Heaven anyways. Well one of the obvious reasons is to become more Christ-like, which I would imagine enables us to bear greater fruit for the Kingdom, which gives us satisfaction in our work. Who doesn't appreciate incremental promotions to a closer walk with God and resulting responsibilities to love others? Otherwise, WE become stagnant and bored. And incidentally in that process, God's pruning is incredibly effective.
Amen.Already, in photos and videos and what-not, we can't believe everything we see. No worries though, WE won't be deceived, because we continually fix our gaze upon the Truth Himself.
Amen, brotherI sincerely agree that the possibilities of advancement in all aspects of existence in the next life, are gonna blow our minds - especially as God is pleased to reveal a wee bit at a time to motivate us. Who needs man's forms of entertainment when we have His? Perpetual joy indeed.
I think its more complex than that. Put it this way around 85% of children who think they are trans realign naturally with their body. Some come to realise they are actually gay or lesbian and not trans. So if such a large % thinking they are opposite sex and end up realigning with their nate sex then they were deluded about being trans due to other reasons.you call it a delusion, but as in other topic, it's not one, they are literally the opposite gender with the brain, many show the signs of their brain functionally more female then male, wich is caused by hormones and such. It be little different then if you could attatch a male head to a female body, the heads image of the body wouldn't fit. Just as boys who are given surgery at birth to be given female genitals, still grow up attracted to girls, and know something is wrong.
What is "9/6"? A date, perhaps 6th September or 9th June? How does 9/6 have people's minds thinking all kinds of ways?9/6 have people's minds thinking all kinds of ways. Specifically "the women".
How inappropriate. Takes a certain individual to have that kind of mindset in them. Or just Dirty-Minded always
That's all.
Sorry, but I don't understand what you mean. Are you simply saying that in order to know all that is being gossiped about you, you need to be a mind-reader?To know all gossip of me, I see through the mind.
I've done some preliminary harvest of my sorghum crop. I pressed the stalks with my sorghum press: Sorghum Press BuildDo you have any updates on your farm, @HARK! ? When will the harvesting period begin, as autumn is quickly approaching?
Where does He say that? He talks about a garbage dump where they burn the garbage. We read about that even during the Kingdom age in the book of Isaiah.
geenna: Gehenna, a valley W. and South of Jer., also a symbolic name for the final place of punishment of the ungodly
Original Word: γέεννα, ης, ἡ
Part of Speech: Noun, Feminine
Transliteration: geenna
Phonetic Spelling: (gheh'-en-nah)
Definition: Gehenna, a valley west and South of Jerusalem, also a symbolic name for the final place of punishment of the ungodly
Seems to me we honor Martin Luther King Jr's life, and what he did during it, more than we do his death.Yes. It takes courage to step in the world of politics, or being a judge, knowing that you could be assassinated. I hope that answers your question. Otherwise, should we stop honoring the death of MKL Jr because he was not in combat when he was shot?