Ones of us have been very busy with criticizing racism and gay stuff and abortion. But what about beauty discrimination?
For a long time, in the United States, people have loved and favored more the women who are more beautiful. And there have been people who have felt unloved and less acceptable because of this.
Plus, by the way, don't people fear older age because of how they will look less beautiful? Why would anyone fear looking older? Possibly, because certain culture has taught people that you can become less loved and be less desirable when you look less beautiful in your older age. And so, also, younger ones might dread spending time with older people, because they have learned to fear seeing what they could look like when they get older. And who perhaps has taught this to younger ones? May be, older people talking critically about what they look like . . . instead of being role models of how you can become more mature and wise and encouraging in your older years.
And do not let this world's love-cancelling culture shame you for looking older or less beautiful than others!!
"rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." (1 Peter 3:4)
I even bullied the girls who were less popular because of not being cute like other girls. Beauty discrimination helped to feed and enable my willingness to bully instead of loving any and all people; but the real fault was with my own evil character making me so ready to receive an excuse to enjoy hurting other people.
And most people would not stand up for the ones less socially accepted.
So - - this anti-love problem has been going on at least since I was in elementary school during the 1950's. This problem has been **hiding in plain sight**, even being promoted in the form of beauty pageants, possibly.
And I see the degradation, of men who are hung up on beauty, so they do not know how the evaluate and love a person in a close relstionship: because we men can be so **vain** about how cute and beautiful a woman looks.
There are men who can be so upset about the racial discrimination that is coming against them; and yet at the same time they can live in beauty discrimination, hunting down and using and abusing the women they consider to be more attractive, and not caring about less beautiful women.
Even during college I was a horrible person. I could get disgusted, even, against certain women because of what they looked like. I did not know how to love - - right while I was so busy trying to make sure I did not sin in some way that could keep me out of Heaven.
But in my sort of Catholic practice, such beauty discrimination did not get obvious attention > I never felt effectively warned of how it could cancel me from finding out how to love, and help keep me from Jesus for eternity.
Of course, it is possible that my own evil nature kept me from realizing how wrong I was, right while certain people could have said things and I just ignored them.
But Jesus has us loving any and all people. And in case people discriminate against us because of what we look like, God has us forgive ones who do not know how to love us, and be encouraged to pray for them and be their example so they can find out how to love . . . after they first trust in Jesus who can give us real and deep correction.