Funny, you’re STILL not posting anything to do with dictionaries…
Let me help you out. The current trending definition of ‘gender’ allows someone to change their gender. And guess what! That definition is appearing in dictionaries:
Gender
1. the male sex or the female sex, especially when considered with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones, or one of a range of other
identities that do not correspond to established ideas of male and female.
"the singer has opted to keep the names and genders of her twins private"
That’s from Oxford Languages.
So, according to that favorite of Republican sayings…
Facts don’t care about your feelings…