If you want a thankless job; try cleaning toilets, bathtubs, doing laundry & changing diapers & cooking meal after meal to have only complaints about too much salt, not enough gravy or whathave you. Try having to ask your spouse for every dime you want because you married a tightwad, alcoholic or porn addict.
Plus you are then supposed to be everthing they see on TV, Raise the Children, oh yeah & since most of em don't earn enough to suit themselves you are supposed to at "least" get a part-time job-- right? All of em want to lead, but few want to support.
Men quit being Men around the late 1850's throughout the 60's in MHO,
Not all but in general. Perhpas it began with the "westward" movement, civil war and maybe World War II that brought it all to the forefront.
What is the ROOT of all evil-(we all know it's GREED)
Perhaps it was compounded by the roaring 20's when lust & other things moved to the forefront of our society and as any untreated illness have gotten progressively worse. And of course the 60-'s CAPPED it off-there's no going back now.
But When & Why or BLAME doesn't get us anywhere-really. It was probably some of all the above including the views that ALeaf has. Many Women never seem to be satisfified w/their man's income & want more & more things.
This is one of those problems that is not likely to be remedied-I figure we are going to have to just accept that the roles have changed for most households til Jesus comes back.
One thing that is Good that has come out of it all it I think we have found out there is only ONE race & that is HUMAN...
So if we can just all treat each other as human, maybe all the rest will not present so many problems.