Niffer
So...that just happened.
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I'm not really sure what the OP is looking for, but if he's looking for the truth, it's right here: American women don't do the whole "submission" thing. In almost all American marriages, the wife is the final authority. That's the fact. I don't care what people say--this is the way things are. I don't care if the couple are Calvinists, Arminians, Conservatives, Liberals, Pagans or atheists--this is just the way things are and you can quote Ephesians 5 until you're blue in the face and it ain't gonna change a thing.
The question is: what are you gonna do about it? There are several options:
1) You can remain single. As a matter of fact I recommend this course of action for the OP in his current state. I guarantee extreme disappointment to anyone who thinks they are going to find an "obedient" wife.
2) Look for this mythical "submissive" woman and marry her if/when you find her. And when you do, will you introduce me to her? I've never met a woman anywhere in real life or on line who in any way ceded any authority to her husband. The best you can see is a kind of mutual cooperation, but believe me, when there is a disagreement, the wife will get her way.
3) Realize the truth and decide to live with it. Marry the best woman you can find and realize she is every bit as fallible as you are and this is one of those things in life you're just going to have to deal with. Have a kid or two. Being a father is a heck of a lot more fun and rewarding than being a husband. And get a dog. Then you'll at least be getting some respect and obedience from somewhere
I feel like this post could've been good, but it went downhill so fast.
I am sorry that you've never met a woman who practices Christian submission to her husband - of course, perhaps it's your definition of "submission" thats the problem, and not women.
And your whole point 3 is unbelievably offensive.
Not all men need a dog to feel respected, and some actually do enjoy being married.
If you'd like to start a thread about your own personal complaints about your marriage, please feel free to do so - but this thread isn't about you, so don't try to make it.
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