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His Pink Princess
- Mar 12, 2010
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As a wife who believes in submission, let me tell you this: firstly, make sure the woman you marry believes in submission, or learn to do without it. Secondly, your wife is not always going to submit to you, nor should she. There will be times when it will be best if you submit. There will be times that you will realize later, you should have listened to her instead of doing your own thing. However, there will also be times when she will realize she was being stubborn too, and should have submitted.
As Luther said, you are not perfect, so don't expect a perfect wife either. And, honestly, you shouldn't be so concerned on whether or not your wife will listen to you when you get married; you should be worried about whether or not you will be a Godly husband. Study Ephesians 5. Study the way Christ lived, and apply that to your marriage. If you learn to be a Godly husband, it will spur an almost automatic response in your wife to submit. You will both drop the ball at times, but learn to be selfless and pick it back up, even if she isn't submitting, keep loving her, and God will bless you for doing your part.
You can't force a woman to submit anymore than you can force a man to love.
As Luther said, you are not perfect, so don't expect a perfect wife either. And, honestly, you shouldn't be so concerned on whether or not your wife will listen to you when you get married; you should be worried about whether or not you will be a Godly husband. Study Ephesians 5. Study the way Christ lived, and apply that to your marriage. If you learn to be a Godly husband, it will spur an almost automatic response in your wife to submit. You will both drop the ball at times, but learn to be selfless and pick it back up, even if she isn't submitting, keep loving her, and God will bless you for doing your part.
You can't force a woman to submit anymore than you can force a man to love.
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