I'm a PK. I'm 22 so I've spent yrs trying to work thru my issues.
I grew up "perfect," then rebelled for years (eating disorder, alcoholism, rehab, abusive relationships, promiscuous, dated men 20+ yrs older, etc). still struggling w/ recovery.
I used to be angry & blow up at parents. But now, I understand why they are the way they are... despite how frustrating it is. Currently, I'm trying to make positive changes w/ dad, but its very hard cuz 1) i try to control my words so i dont hurt him, 2) how i really feel about his religious-ness & his church would hurt & tear him to pieces. so what do i have left? just shut up & help him out... which outwardly may workout, but makes my recovery extremely hard.
i dont know... hopefully it'll just keep improving over time.