Hi Pandersen! Just a caution, but this thread is on the verge of becoming a debate, and I wouldn't want you to get into trouble. If you have more questions, I'd suggest maybe choosing an OBOB member that you feel might be able to answer them and maybe sending them a PM.

But just be mindful that the Tradition of the Church was not all written down (as even John himself states in 20:30!) - Scripture is the basis for a Tradition that is full of many spiritual gems, but it is not the only source of that Tradition. As Catholics, we are very mindful of the practises of the early Christians, because they illustrate to us what the people who were closest to Christ and the Apostles believed. Now, two thousand years later, it is easy to look back and say, "they were off their rocker;
this is what Christ
really intended!" But we maintain that there is a wisdom there that must be respected.
Again, I'd invite you to PM an OBOB member who you feel would be able to help answer your questions more in depth.

(NewMan99 seems to be a favourite these days

)
Peace in Christ.