Is a Piggyback Ride Flirting? Kinda iffy?

[Gwendolyn]

Alenci, your heart is in the right place. I think it is beautiful that you still pray for him, because you desire his wellbeing. I get sad sometimes when I think of the people out there who may be struggling without someone standing behind them in prayer. The more prayers, the better, I think - it can only make him stronger, and the battle with sexuality is a very difficult one that we all must fight.

Obviously I'm not male, so the question doesn't pertain to me... but from the other perspective, I wouldn't feel comfortable asking for a piggy back. For me personally, it would be too much contact. Though honestly, that shoulder wars thing sounds absolutely hilarious. What a funny mental picture.

 

[Luther073082]

Alenci, your heart is in the right place. I think it is beautiful that you still pray for him, because you desire his wellbeing. I get sad sometimes when I think of the people out there who may be struggling without someone standing behind them in prayer. The more prayers, the better, I think - it can only make him stronger, and the battle with sexuality is a very difficult one that we all must fight.

Obviously I'm not male, so the question doesn't pertain to me... but from the other perspective, I wouldn't feel comfortable asking for a piggy back. For me personally, it would be too much contact. Though honestly, that shoulder wars thing sounds absolutely hilarious. What a funny mental picture.

So I guess trying to teach you the tango is out of the picture.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ebXMJQtZA0

I should point out that most of them seem kind of sloppy.

 

[Alenci]

Most arousal takes place IMO from a postion of relaxation... Piggy-back is jolly hard work LOL.

Hehe, that's what I was thinking too. The poor guy was probably just like, "Whew! Ten more steps! Almost there! Almost there! Don't collapse! Don't drop her!"

Contact mans back to womens front really would not do that much, but womans back to man's front... different story. (no further explanation LOL)
Front to front, (stop, stop, stop... no explanation here LOL LOL)

Embarrassing, but funny...

 

[deliciousBass]

So I guess trying to teach you the tango is out of the picture.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ebXMJQtZA0

I should point out that most of them seem kind of sloppy.

Hey! Tango looks like fun!

Note to self: Tango looks like fun. Make sure to put it on my list of desperate measures. Buy ice cream.

 

[simpletrust]

For future reference that's called Chicken Fighting, Cherry Dropping, or Shoulder Wars. It's a lot of fun when you have healthy minded people to play with.

Y.

I love the bizarre names people come up with for games like that

 

[ido]

It really isn't. I've had wrestling matches with women, when I was wrestling in High School, and I was not aroused, so I think there's very little difference.

I'm guessing these were girls that seemed more like one of the guys...which would probably be a big reason why it didn't affect you.

 

[LonesomeTexan]

I'm guessing these were girls that seemed more like one of the guys...which would probably be a big reason why it didn't affect you.

HAHAHAHA

 

[Teufelhund]

I'm guessing these were girls that seemed more like one of the guys...which would probably be a big reason why it didn't affect you.

Not really not at 135 lbs.

 

[Gwendolyn]

So I guess trying to teach you the tango is out of the picture.

Not only that, but I have two left feet! Unless you'd like to have heel-shaped bruises on your toes, you'd best stand back, sir!

 

[ImperialPhantom]

I'm guessing these were girls that seemed more like one of the guys...which would probably be a big reason why it didn't affect you.

Seriously, us guys are NOT total lechers that want to sleep with any hot girl we see. I wish someone would burn copies of whatever modern new-age psuedoChristian books are inspiring this myth.

 

[Gardener101]

Seriously, us guys are NOT total lechers that want to sleep with any hot girl we see. I wish someone would burn copies of whatever modern new-age psuedoChristian books are inspiring this myth.

It's the PREACHERS SCREAMING FROM THE PULPIT "behold the Jezebel in the front row, wearing a short skirt...trying to cause us men to sin....I beseech thee! Turn from thy wicked ways and start wearing a niqab!"

 

[ImperialPhantom]

It's the PREACHERS SCREAMING FROM THE PULPIT "behold the Jezebel in the front row, wearing a short skirt...trying to cause us men to sin....I beseech thee! Turn from thy wicked ways and start wearing a niqab!"

Looks like a ninja - and fits well with your ninja edit

 

[BoazB]

It's the PREACHERS SCREAMING FROM THE PULPIT "behold the Jezebel in the front row, wearing a short skirt...trying to cause us men to sin....I beseech thee! Turn from thy wicked ways and start wearing a niqab!"

Behold ... the Burqah.

Ninja Turtles strike again!
(Excuse me, are you Raphello or Donatello?)

 

[BoazB]

I had heard of prostitutes using Burqah as disguise, so that their clients wouldn't recognise them LOL. (No offence anybody... told to me by a police detective. Also not reflective of the average wearer. )

 

[Balugon]

i think it depends on the people and the heart of the guy (well, girl too). Some people it wouldnt phase, but if the guy is interested in the girl as more than friends, and then gets the opportunity to give her a piggy-back ride, thru temptation or him choosing to enjoy it as much as he can, yea, he might get a little turned on. A guy's sensitivity to touch in general might affect the results also.

Personally, if i was attracted to a girl, and she asked for a piggy-back ride somewhere, the lower half wouldnt be the part that bothered me, it would be the warmth of the bust on my back that would be problematic.

Either way, it appears it has been said elsewhere, the girls riding on guys shoulders in the pool while playing chicken or whatever people want to call it, especially if they are wearing a bikini, would be much worse imo.

 

[BoazB]

Say... we could have a theme song for this thread. A rehash of a Beatles number: "Piggyback Rider" (paperback writer)

 

[Luther073082]

Not only that, but I have two left feet! Unless you'd like to have heel-shaped bruises on your toes, you'd best stand back, sir!

You arn't the only girl who's said they can't dance.

Most of my worst injuries from dance (which arn't that bad in the first place) have actually come from experienced dancers when one of us made a mistake on a more advanced move.

With newer women I'm always protecting myself and her which limits how good the dance can look but it makes us a lot less likely to get hurt.

 

[kingoffools13]

Actually, I'd say it's about 95 percent accurate. No rule is without exceptions, but the exceptions don't invalidate the rule.

it isnt, you always make statements like that when people ask questions, and say that if someone does such and such or doesn't do such and such they are crazy, lame, inexperienced etc.

as if not acting like you think they should means whatever label you decided to grant is fitting ... doesnt work like that.

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[Gardener101]

it isnt, you always make statements like that when people ask questions, and say that if someone does such and such or doesn't do such and such they are crazy, lame, inexperienced etc.

as if not acting like you think they should means whatever label you decided to grant is fitting ... doesnt work like that.

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KOF, he wouldn't be IP if he didn't make such statements. It's just his way of expressing himself. I think he assumes that we know he is talking about HIS OWN interpretation (opinion) and not assuming that we think he is making statements of facts

 

[Alenci]

Seriously, us guys are NOT total lechers that want to sleep with any hot girl we see. I wish someone would burn copies of whatever modern new-age psuedoChristian books are inspiring this myth.

You mean like Every Man's Battle?