Is it unbliblical for a Christian man to be attracted to androgynous women?

[Truth7t7]

Actually, my church's also pretty conservative too.

Direct Questions?

1.) Does your church allow practicing homosexuals into membership?

2.) Does your church allow same sex married couples into membership?

 

[TheRisingSun]

Direct Questions?

1.) Does your church allow practicing homosexuals into membership?

2.) Does your church allow same sex married couples into membership?

No and no.

 

[Truth7t7]

No and no.

Thanks for the response

 

[TheRisingSun]

@bèlla , you're a bit more mature than me spiritually. What are your thoughts?

Because I'm starting to think I'm not so abnormal after all.

 

[seeking.IAM]

In the past, I've said that my ideal type, in terms of personality, is a total tomboy.... I ain't that crazy about femininity.

I would not sweat it. I'm an old guy, happily married for more than a few decades now. When I was a young fellow in the dating market, I was attracted to plain women...natural women without make-up and long polished nails. It was a preference but they were still women. The downside was that once or twice it put me in the unknowing situation of having someone I fancied be more interested in women than me. But, you don't know the end of your story. In my case despite what I liked, I ended up with a make-up wearing woman who likes getting her nails done. Go figure.

At the end of the day, there are things more important than appearances.

 

[TheRisingSun]

It didn't bother me that you like masculine women. I also like masculine women to some degree (to me it's more towards the character than the appearance).

What bothers me concerns your past posts is you prefer being feminine yourself and don't like doing masculine things as a man while at the same time attracted to masculine women.

Most women also prefer being feminine themselves and is attracted to masculine men (before social media forced fed us the idea that masculinity is toxic/evil).

You're leaning way too far towards the female side as a male. And that can be become an issue if you don't control your fantasies.

And knowing you, your advice for me is to become more masculine.

 

[timewerx]

And knowing you, your advice for me is to become more masculine.

I only used the words "masculine" and "feminine" to help explain what I mean but "masculinity" and "femininity" does not exist under the New Covenant of Jesus Christ. Women are required of the same things from men, except to be leaders (however, this could depend on the context and there are circumstances that women can be leaders as well).

I observed that you're looking for a "super" or "action-hero" type of women but the thing is, Jesus also looks for the same qualities of all His followers (John 14:12). Both male and female.

You need to grow in character with the Holy Spirit and become the person you're looking for. Even if you think you can't, pray for help and try your best.

 

[com7fy8]

Seek what is beautiful to God.