ll this, and for what? To prove there exists a method that is capable of forcing God to move?
For starters, you're not forcing God to do anything. You're looking at it the wrong way. We're talking about receiving something that is already yours. It's done supernaturally, by faith. If it weren't yours, "in Christ" (a place of submission and love), then you'd have a point.
If you qualify, then it's not an issue.
If you're not abiding, then you'd be trying to force God to honor His Word, when He's not obligated if you're not abiding. (I'm not referring to you btw.)
Personally, I usually try to reduce it to the simplest terms. What I know I really need. There's a lot that I could do with that I don't "need". There's also a lot of "good things" that He often does not withhold if I'm walking uprightly. Again, that is the key. It's not a "theoretical" cold thing. It's a living, walking in love by faith thing that has a certain "sight" to it that is supernatural. It comes with the abiding. Without it, it's all guesswork.
There is often a "space" of things that are allowed (good things).
He'll let you do some thing or have some things, but you get a sense that it's better to not go that direction at that time. Then you get the supernatural peace and you "know" that's it's a good thing. You still have to have faith. Sometimes you just have to have faith when you spend the money you have, that you won't send yourself beyond your need/provision thing.
So if you get in the habit of keeping yourself where the fruit is flowing, then you have the guide built in, often with "space" to move in certain directions. He delights in you having desires to do things (He actually put them there.). He also delights when you ask Him to enter into to those very things. It's a Father's pleasure.
Can you picture a father driving down a street he knew a carnival was at. When you see it and you go, "
Oh man! I really want to go! Can we go?! He already knew you wanted to go and was hoping you'd ask. You might not ask and go by that road 10 times before you have confidence enough to ask if you can go there with him. He was hoping you'd confidently speak forth. Sometimes you can tell on the inside that it's not the right time.
He knows what's coming down the pike and if you beyond the peace, then you can expect to know a little leanness that isn't necessary.
I'm talking "stuff" or activities, but when it comes to just believing for the promises of God in your life such as direction and overcoming love, etc., then you HAVE to stand on those promises and speak them out and believe in just the same way you would when you go down the financial paths. It's part of receiving by faith. It takes it out of the thought realm.
Just because I want something, and even ask the Lord for it, there is no guarantee any part of the request will be filled, as if I have submitted a purchase order to heaven.
We have general guidelines such as "you don't have because you don't ask", and "if you abide, you must ask what YOU will". You're looking inside for guidance that He promises to provide, so there shouldn't be too much guesswork.
And what must I pay? Well, I'm told through this approach that I must get all my ducks in a row, confess daily until I possess -- which in the majority of cases never manifests -- and to not commit an act that would stand in the way of receiving that request.
You're talking about corresponding actions of faith. You can't get around it. We're supposed to walk by faith. But it assumes a certain connection that has the guidance system built into it. We're supposed to know that at least our basic necessities will be fulfilled. Beyond that, you ascertain what His will is and you go back the peace (or lack of it).
It pleases Him not only that you ask, but that you go by the inward cues He provides.
It's all about getting the method down pat, rather than cooperating with the H.G. in building inwardly the image of Christ through the work of suffering -- which cannot take place without the denial of self, as opposed to the serving of self.
There is a certain way to move that is by faith. It's not just a "method" of religious activities, Heavenly calisthenics, or 20 pushups you have to do. It's a lifestyle of doing the things you seem to be complaining about. They're only "religious" activities when the abiding thing isn't fully happening. I definitely fall short a lot, but I know enough to be able to say that if I were consistent, I wouldn't sometimes feel like you seem to, having to "keep up" with the spiritual "Jones'". It takes care of itself though when you set aside a little time for worship and declaring and re-declaring the Word of truth over your life, as a daily base to start from.
Do you know how many times we step outside of that and literally reprogram our thinking into unbelief? It takes re-setting our direction (with our tongues/rudders) and making it a lifestyle. It's totally unnatural. That's the point! We're supposed to be doing that for each other (remind us) and receiving the same admonitions. We preach to others and it builds ourselves up. It puts us right back into the confidence realm.
The WOF folks absolutely hate the word "suffering," and most struggle with its significance in a Christian life, but it is the key to God's true intent, to change us into the image of His Son, to build in us hearts that wish not to live on bread alone.
Too many people suffer needlessly. There is a godly patience that is developed, and you can wait (expectantly) on the fulfillment of promises with patience and dignity (as He once called it). But if we're waiting around and suffering because of ignorance, then we should humble ourselves and consider revising our doctrine.
So what is it that you want? That is very telling in itself. You want fruit and grace and love and to move into what God has ordained for your life.
To be honest, when you couple the "suffering" bit (which would be correct under certain circumstances) with the "spiritual performance orientation" thing you identify WOF as being, then it points toward the wrong kind of suffering.
It's about character building and pressing in to know Him in the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His suffering, not grocery shopping through the claiming of entitlements 24/7.
I can't begin to relate to the last half of that. The whole "entitlement" thing is so bizarre. If you want His will and His kingdom in your life by His strength, with a lot of fruit and a strong faith and an overcoming love, then every promise that pertains to that you are entitled to (only by grace). The whole catch is that we abide. It's the big "IF".
I personally believe if we're ok in that, we're good to absolutely expect those needs to not only be met, but for Him to be overjoyed you dared to step forward and believe them as being yours, even though you didn't "hear" anything today about it).
How many times has the Word said, "You forget" this or that? He doesn't have to tell us again. He already told us. His Word on many issues has already gone out and we're supposed to receive it like it's a firm foundation to walk on.