I get what your saying
@Watchman1 but I think the issue is you are basing your thesis here off of people who are proven phonies and charlatan's. People who actually walk in these gifts are not going to be video taping them to post them on YouTube for views and social clout.
I can speak just from my own personal experience on some of these, not all, but some.
I grew up in a Baptist cessationist church and it took the Lord Jesus personally talking to me, audible voice, and healing me from Mental Illness for me to realize that I had been taught wrong. So I went to a Pentecostal church and asked them to pray over me so I could speak in tongues. Well that particular church did not do altar calls, so they sent me to an elder's house where for 2 hours the man tried to force tongues onto me by repeating phrases and such. I told him I wouldn't do it, that my understanding of the gift is it would be spontaneous like with the first Pentecost. Well he got mad and kicked me out of the house. When I got home I prayed about it and heard on single word, "Pentecost". I asked the Lord for confirmation, and what He told me is that on the day of Pentecost, I would receive the gift of tongues. So I continued praying and persevering. And exactly as I had been told, it happened. I was praying in my prayer closet on the day of Pentecost and just out of no where I went from English to some entirely foreign to me. No forcing, no fakery. Now I'm never used this gift in a church, I've never attended a church that allowed time for this gift to be used unfortunately. I am involved with a house church now and they have regularly used tongues in our meetings with interpretations. There have been prophecies spoken and healings.
I get what you are trying to say about healings, with most healings being the kind that we can't "see". Who I am to question whether they are real or not? If the minister is faking healings just to pad his spiritual resume a little bit then that minister will be dealt with on the day of Judgement and that is not something I should concern myself with. We all know that Jesus said such people would exist and that He would deal with them. But that doesn't mean that all healings with no outward change are fake or false.
I have personally prayed for people that were healed. I take no credit for that of course, it was the Lord working through me, so I know from first hand experience that healings can be real. One was a disabled man who was able to walk without use of a cane again and my wife had a neck issue that was healed while we were talking over the phone.
Now I think this gets at a bigger issue in Christianity though. Why aren't there more healings and miracles and such? Well the cessationist would tell you it's because they aren't needed any more. That the canon of scripture is complete and therefore those things, God witnessing to the gospel by signs and wonders and giftings are no longer needed. That is false. Scripture says that is false, for in 1 Corinthians 1:7, Paul wrote that we would not lack any gift as we await the revelation of Jesus at the end. Even the main verse cessationists use to support their nonsense is being misinterpreted, 1 Corinthians 13:8.
So if they aren't happening and it's not because they aren't available then what is going on? I don't honestly know, at least not in my country. I've heard that overseas in nations where Christians are actively persecuted for their faith that the gifts and miracles are a regular occurance, so perhaps that is something that should be considered. In Western society, Christians have it cushy, there's no desperation for the power of God in our lives. We cry out to God when we are a couple of dollars short for our favorite coffee. We feel persecuted if someone takes our favorite seat in church. People are not pursuiting God as they ought. It's ultimately a lack of faith and not even Jesus could do many works in an environment that lacked faith. I'm ashamed at the things I've heard people say inside churches about their lack of scripture knowledge or discipline in following God. They are being failed, miserably by their leadership, and that is having a direct reflection in their walk with God. God is not showing Himself to them, because they are not reaching out to Him. We want all the power and want to do nothing to attain it. Not that we earn the gifts or that we earn God's favor but the Lord said, "Draw near to me and I will draw near to you!"
Sorry, rant over. God bless you all