Starting A Family...

[KinderBee]

She never wanted to be in his life. She wanted to have an abortion but Chris finally convinced her to have the baby and give him full Custodiy.

 

[chiyongam]

Sascha ,
I know you must be a great planner. But why no emotion though its like this has to be done by this time and that needs to be done by this time. I do hope you are enjoying the excitement and going through the emotions of planning and getting married. Please do let go and enjoy !! Everything will work out just fine!!!

 

[squeakyclean1]

I'm not engaged yet, but my bf and I have talked about this too. We're planning on getting married when I'm 22, after graduating college. I have to go to grad school after graduating, so I'll be 24 after that, and then we'll probably want 1-2 years to save up money and travel and such. Then we'll start trying. We want between 2 and 4, we'll see what God has instore. And if I can't become pregnant, we're gonna adopt. I'd rather use the money for that instead of other ways of concieving. And no, we've never thought of names either. That time will come when I'm pregnant.

 

[seamonster]

I just got married, and my husband and I would like to wait a year and a half -- until I'm out of college. We'll probably have at least 3, and adopt at least 2.

 

[Hope_0004]

Does anyone ever worry if they will be able to have children?

 

[FaithfulServant]

Does anyone ever worry if they will be able to have children?

I don't worry about it since people in my family have always had alot of children. (Like one grandmother had 14, the other had 12) If I wasn't able to I would be very sad....so maybe I just try not to think about it

 

[PurpleBunny]

The earliest we'll have children (planned, at least) will be after all the immigration routines are finished and done. But we'd prefer to wait until Chris is done grad school. Of course, every month if my PMS symptoms are inconspicuous I start to get all excited, or wonder if they're early pregnancy symptoms. I'm kinda in baby-mode right now.

As for names, we really like the name Nyssa Anne for a girl-child. But of course nothing is final until we start a family and actually have a little girl!

 

[pugby]

i am getting married in april and we plan on starting right away, even though everyone says to wait, i look forward to being a father. We plan on having some and possibly adopting more. We are looking at having 13, but if God wants us to have more, we are also open to that.

 

[*Liberty*]

We would like to wait 1-2 years after marrying before trying to have kids, but if it happens sooner, yay!

We only want 1 or 2 children also. I love kids but don't want a huge family.

As for names, they are a secret! Not even our parents will know until the meet their grandchildren for the first time! But we do have them picked out already and have been set on them since a month or so into our relationship. Let's just hope the babies look like the names or else we will really be in a pickle!

 

[CrystalBrooke]

well after having engaged in things we shouldn't have, we'll have a family not too long after we get married. We had always discussed how many children we wanted and things of that sort tho. and even if i hadnt gotten pregnant first, i wanted to get pregnant within our first year or so of marriage. We're having a girl, he picked the first name and I picked the middle...Emily Makenzie. We want more tho, probably around 3 or 4 with 3 or 4 years in between each of them.

 

[Catholic Wife]

We would prefer to wait a year after we are married to start having children, but are leaving that part up to God. We may have difficulty conceiving because of my age (and PCOS), so we'll take any children whenever they come along. Ideally, we would like to have 2-3 kids. As for names, Rosemary is at the top of the list for a girl and David or Michael for a boy.

 

[Catholic Wife]

oops!

 

[Roxa]

we will be married in May... we want to start right away... even though people seem to think that we need to wait for a couple of years.... we are excited about starting our family, we want 5 kids... we have talked about names and really like the following names, Erzy Michael Rosemary, Seraphina Ramona Bella, Idina Carolynn...,
we still have to decide on a few more names but we still have time for that.

 

[FaithfulServant]

we will be married in May... we want to start right away... even though people seem to think that we need to wait for a couple of years.... we are excited about starting our family, we want 5 kids... we have talked about names and really like the following names, Erzy Michael Rosemary, Seraphina Ramona Bella, Idina Carolynn...,
we still have to decide on a few more names but we still have time for that.

What unique names! Is Erzy Michael Rosemary for a male or female?

 

[chocolateloverjen]

It depends when i get married, plans are to be married on our anniversary either in 2009 or 2010 and i will be 21/22. i personally would like my 1st baby before i am 25, so might have a year honeymoon. It depends, im sure i will be eger to have one as i have been going out with Ric since 2004, lol.

 

[seamonster]

Originally we had planned to wait 2 or 3 years, but now that we're married we're planning on getting pregnant around our first anniversary. We'll be 19 & 22.

 

[Roxa]

What unique names! Is Erzy Michael Rosemary for a male or female?

That would be for our little boy

 

[ChildOfGod20]

that would depend on when we get married. if we get married within the next two years then we will probably wait 2-3 years to start. but if we have to wait a while to get married then we will probably start soon.

 

[OrangeHope]

beautifull name roxa

 

[OrangeHope]

since my bf and i are just together a bit over 5 months we havn't talked about marriage or kids. but whoever i marry i would like to have atleast 4 kids. maybe my fist one by the time i'm 23...but i'm not sure if i can see that happening anymore....