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It seems pretty obvious, don't you think, where your security issues stem from? It might be best to distance yourself from your mom. I'm not saying stop communicating with her but a little distance may be healthy for you.
You have had some excellent insights about your past and into wanting the outside of your life to be pretty but forgetting the inside. GOOD FOR YOU. This is really KEY. Now what needs to happen is for you to separate your emotions from this issue because that is what is clouding things for you and encouraging you to consider unhealthy things.
I liked Dark Horses suggestion about LISTS. They can be very helpful. they can help you be objective.
I am so glad that you told your husband Ellie. It is a huge deal. good for you and him. You two will be bonded in a way you never have before because of the amount of trust you put in him (and in yourself for telling him!).
The memorial service is overwhelming, isn't it? I will never forget mine either. I am so glad that you were able to experience some healing from Rachel's Vineyard.
You are making some very important and BIG moves in your life right now Ellie. Take it easy and don't be so hard on yourself. Just keep listening for God's voice sister. Everything will be ok.
You have had some excellent insights about your past and into wanting the outside of your life to be pretty but forgetting the inside. GOOD FOR YOU. This is really KEY. Now what needs to happen is for you to separate your emotions from this issue because that is what is clouding things for you and encouraging you to consider unhealthy things.
I liked Dark Horses suggestion about LISTS. They can be very helpful. they can help you be objective.
I am so glad that you told your husband Ellie. It is a huge deal. good for you and him. You two will be bonded in a way you never have before because of the amount of trust you put in him (and in yourself for telling him!).
The memorial service is overwhelming, isn't it? I will never forget mine either. I am so glad that you were able to experience some healing from Rachel's Vineyard.
You are making some very important and BIG moves in your life right now Ellie. Take it easy and don't be so hard on yourself. Just keep listening for God's voice sister. Everything will be ok.
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