So I've been with my boyfriend for four months. And man, do I love him. I really do. He's the ONLY guy I've ever said "I love you" to. And I've been with other guys, for relationships a full YEAR longer than this. Anyways, last night he calls me. He says he needs to tell me something. He tells me "I think the reason I'm a Christian is because of you". Which at first, I thought was awesome. But that's not the way he meant it. He said he doesn't believe in a lot of the stuff in the bible. And he doesn't believe Jesus was any closer to God than we are, and that he was just a man.
Now I don't know what to do. I'm angry that he lied about something this huge. But I love him, I do. He said he was just planning on hiding it from me forever, and eventually try to believe enough to just become a Christian.
I can really see a future with this guy. And he can reaaalllly see a future with me. But is it ok that he's not a Christian? I've spent my whole life only dating Christian guys, and telling my sister to do the same. Advice?
Now I don't know what to do. I'm angry that he lied about something this huge. But I love him, I do. He said he was just planning on hiding it from me forever, and eventually try to believe enough to just become a Christian.
I can really see a future with this guy. And he can reaaalllly see a future with me. But is it ok that he's not a Christian? I've spent my whole life only dating Christian guys, and telling my sister to do the same. Advice?