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Is it unbliblical for a Christian man to be attracted to androgynous women?

seeking.IAM

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In the past, I've said that my ideal type, in terms of personality, is a total tomboy.... I ain't that crazy about femininity.

I would not sweat it. I'm an old guy, happily married for more than a few decades now. When I was a young fellow in the dating market, I was attracted to plain women...natural women without make-up and long polished nails. It was a preference but they were still women. The downside was that once or twice it put me in the unknowing situation of having someone I fancied be more interested in women than me. But, you don't know the end of your story. In my case despite what I liked, I ended up with a make-up wearing woman who likes getting her nails done. Go figure.

At the end of the day, there are things more important than appearances.
 
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And knowing you, your advice for me is to become more masculine.
 
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And knowing you, your advice for me is to become more masculine.
I only used the words "masculine" and "feminine" to help explain what I mean but "masculinity" and "femininity" does not exist under the New Covenant of Jesus Christ. Women are required of the same things from men, except to be leaders (however, this could depend on the context and there are circumstances that women can be leaders as well).

I observed that you're looking for a "super" or "action-hero" type of women but the thing is, Jesus also looks for the same qualities of all His followers (John 14:12). Both male and female.

You need to grow in character with the Holy Spirit and become the person you're looking for. Even if you think you can't, pray for help and try your best.
 
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So you've met Christian men/boys who've crushed on straight up butches before? I've crushed on a female cop like that, and Private Vasquez from "Aliens" is a total heartthrob to me.
 
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