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I am okay - You are okay

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I am content in my single state.
I spend as much time as I want reading the Bible.
And do not have to be accountable to anyone else except God.

I am not depressed about it.
I do not wallow in my dateless state.
It is a normal part of my life.

I am not desperate about finding a spouse.
If it happens - it is totally Gods will.
And God has to be the center of the relationship.

I am thinking it is because of my "experienced" single state that makes it okay.
When I was in college I was more concerned about finding someone.

I know some of the other "mature" singles feel the same way.
Lets remind each other it is OKAY to be HAPPILY single.

We should all be enjoying every day the Lord has given us.
We should be doing so by praising him for ALL he has given us.