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Hi Guys, I need some advice.
I am a Christian and I have seen some people differ in their belief as to exactly what Christians believe. My belief is that your salvation/ever lasting life is obtained through your faith in what Jesus did for us on the cross. That you are saved by faith and faith alone.
Now my problem is that I am in a relationship with a woman for a year and a half. She is Old Apostolic, the religion basically originated in South Africa.
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I will take a shot at this, but you have a lot in here! I think you should focus on the "essentials" .. and definitely don't freak out yet! Make sure you agree on those - basically faith only, grace alone, Jesus alone, bible alone - who is God, who is Jesus, how are we saved? What's our purpose?
A lot of times, it is simply semantics - they are speaking a different type of "Christianese" so you have to dig a little deeper, and find out what they really believe and if it flat out flies in the face of scripture. For example, if someone said God used to be man.. that's a different God, or if someone said a murderer couldn't go to heaven, that's a different Jesus dying on the cross. If she doesn't believe Jesus was God then that's obviously a huge problem, but why not show her in the scriptures all the places that Jesus proclaimed His deity?
You don't simply walk away from someone when they just might need someone to read the bible with them! I'm thinking you might be the answer to her mom's prayer or a sibling or anyone who knows she is getting bad theology, and therefore there is no assurance of her salvation at this time!
If her church says the bible is interpreted by the Holy Spirit.. yes, read up on the attributes of the Holy Sprit -- the illuminator, the helper, leds us to Truth.. God used the Holy Spirit to inspire the writers of the bible, right? Everyone has a personal relationship with God, and the Holy Spirit living inside of them, but there is only one Holy Spirit.. I would not fret this one - it only shows they put an emphasis on the Holy Spirit and a lot of churches flat out ignore Him so.. that's just my opinion.
Attending church that frequently isn't necessary devotion, as it is indoctrination, pastor elevating himself to God-like status or trying to control the flock, maybe a sign it's a theological cult. That was the biggest flag in your post to me.. I knew someone who went to an "apostolic" church and they spent every waking second there.. all hours of the night, and they didn't believe in the trinity, thought you had to be baptized to be saved, and had to be baptized in "Jesus name only".. I could go on and on.. no make up, no jewelry, but those were non-essentials.. Their plan of salvation was different from mine, so that was the show-stopper -- that means a different God IMHO.
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