faroukfarouk
Fading curmudgeon
Broadcasting issues immediately all around a congregation is not the way to do it!Funny and sad story. We had in our fellowship body a young couple who had recently come to Christ. About the same time the body hired a man to be associate pastor (big mistake but another story) So the new believers had an issue with the associate pastor and asked us how to handle it. We pointed them to Matt. 18 and told them to follow God's word on the matter. They didn't want to because "it would go badly". To which we responded, obedience to God and prayed for them.
WEll, eventually another couple found out there was a problem and instead of following Matt. 18 they skipped steps and before anyone knew what was going on there was a meeting with elders and others, an outburst, lies told, etc. It was very ugly indeed. Among other things we were reprimanded for suggesting Matt. 18 as the model by which to deal with the issue because it "wasn't a sin issue" (it really was, but again another story).
But the funny thing was, if the couple had followed Mat. 18 it would have ended peacefully without everyone knowing the situation and there wouldn't have been any issue. Because they went out of the biblical model things got really ugly.
Lesson to learn...God's way is always best!
Often sanctified patience all round ought to cover things, to be able to sort them.
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