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If I had a dollar for every woman I've heard complain that her male spouse/partner was essentially another child in the house for whom she had to carry thought load and whose needs she had to manage... The difference perhaps is that women experience this as a negative thing, a lack of a reliable teammate in the demands of life, rather than it making the woman feel fulfilled in a nurturing role.
Yep, women tend to view men who act like children as a negative thing. Growing up in a socially conservative household the men worked all day while the wives did very little throughout the day (with many of the men still doing household chores when they came home). I always viewed it as a strange psychological sickness in men that they not only put up with that, but even want it. I remember reading a slave narrative, and they had one interesting part of the book where the slave overheard a white person bragging to other people that he made enough money that his daughters would never have to work a day in their lives and that'd he do everything in his power to make sure they never had to lift a finger for themselves. He described how much satisfaction this gave the man.
I have some parental masculine instincts, but I do believe I am on the lower end of the spectrum. Or maybe I've just repressed it too much. Regardless, ever since I was a kid, I never wanted to end up like the men I was surrounded by growing up.
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