- Aug 31, 2018
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Hello
My wife and I have been married for over 20years and I love her very much. I believe the ‘well’ her also loves me very much. We also have a child who we both love.
Our marriage has not been perfect, for either of us, but we have got through it.
My wife suffers from bipolar with severe depression perhaps every few years. She has also had a major manic episode 10years ago which lead to her hating me and wanting to end the marriage. We separated and what followed was 5 months of very trying manic times (spending money, saying that she hated me, and other stuff), followed by my wife returning to the marriage and us starting again, though we had to work through a period of depression following the 5 month manic episode.
Now, 10 years later I feel that we are living through it again. She has pulled away over the past weeks. We have argued, but I would say that is mainly due to the start of the mania.
Yesterday we called it off and are now separated. My wife wants to sell the family home and move on. Family, friends and her phychiatrist can see that she is at least acting a little manic. She has agreed to revisit the diagnosis, but she is feeling so good at the moment and the person, the manic her hates me so much, and she believes that she is not unwell.
Please help. It is in some ways easier because I have been through it before, but I am still lost. I love my wife and know that she is not herself at the moment, even if she believes this is not the case.
Thank you.
My wife and I have been married for over 20years and I love her very much. I believe the ‘well’ her also loves me very much. We also have a child who we both love.
Our marriage has not been perfect, for either of us, but we have got through it.
My wife suffers from bipolar with severe depression perhaps every few years. She has also had a major manic episode 10years ago which lead to her hating me and wanting to end the marriage. We separated and what followed was 5 months of very trying manic times (spending money, saying that she hated me, and other stuff), followed by my wife returning to the marriage and us starting again, though we had to work through a period of depression following the 5 month manic episode.
Now, 10 years later I feel that we are living through it again. She has pulled away over the past weeks. We have argued, but I would say that is mainly due to the start of the mania.
Yesterday we called it off and are now separated. My wife wants to sell the family home and move on. Family, friends and her phychiatrist can see that she is at least acting a little manic. She has agreed to revisit the diagnosis, but she is feeling so good at the moment and the person, the manic her hates me so much, and she believes that she is not unwell.
Please help. It is in some ways easier because I have been through it before, but I am still lost. I love my wife and know that she is not herself at the moment, even if she believes this is not the case.
Thank you.