- Jan 6, 2022
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Hi Everyone,
I wanted to ask for some advice on a challenge I have been struggling with as both a father and a husband.
My wife and I have 4 kids (ranging from infant to 14) and a furbaby. The long and the short of my issue is: my wife is quick to raise her voice and yell at our children, so much that it is a daily occurrence that is sadly driving me to darker thoughts.
My main concern is that now I see my children adopting a similar approach to their behaviors and confrontations at home. My secondary concern is that I don't want my children to remember their mother this way. My third concern is that it's always a ripple effect because then I get upset when she is always upset or yelling.
I pray about this issue frequently. I've also confronted my wife about it and she is very quick to get defensive and put some of the blame on me since my approach to parenting is more passive and reserved. I acknowledge that the root cause is the poor behavior of our kids that sets her off, but I still believe she can manage the situation much better.
I just don't know what to do or say anymore... Thank you.
I wanted to ask for some advice on a challenge I have been struggling with as both a father and a husband.
My wife and I have 4 kids (ranging from infant to 14) and a furbaby. The long and the short of my issue is: my wife is quick to raise her voice and yell at our children, so much that it is a daily occurrence that is sadly driving me to darker thoughts.
My main concern is that now I see my children adopting a similar approach to their behaviors and confrontations at home. My secondary concern is that I don't want my children to remember their mother this way. My third concern is that it's always a ripple effect because then I get upset when she is always upset or yelling.
I pray about this issue frequently. I've also confronted my wife about it and she is very quick to get defensive and put some of the blame on me since my approach to parenting is more passive and reserved. I acknowledge that the root cause is the poor behavior of our kids that sets her off, but I still believe she can manage the situation much better.
I just don't know what to do or say anymore... Thank you.