Open question to those not in the industry...and those who are...

[BlondieLashes]

I've decided to write a book on the Sex Industry based mainly on my own story, but I am wondering what other people would be interested in in a book on the industry...

I am posting this as an open ended question to those in the industry and those who aren't .... TIA

 

[BlondieLashes]

Thanks to those who have PM'd me. I appreciate the input. Please feel free to PM me or post your question or comments. Thanks!

 

[BlondieLashes]

Wow! I just want again to say thank you to those who are giving me input. It is helping me get a grasp on what people wonder about....Thank you for taking the time to PM me... You can always ask here to. Whatever you are comfortable with. Thank you.

 

[nautical999]

I was part of a deliverance some time back with a woman who was an exotic dancer and a playboy bunny. This woman also had DID and in one of the rooms inside were shelves of eyes. The Lord led me to pray for her to break the soul ties with her and all who watched and looked at her in a sexual manner. The eyes were destroyed afterward. Since i have not come across a similar case i was wondering if it is common or not. This may be something seen in dreams too.

 

[BlondieLashes]

Nautical999- Are you asking if DID is common in the industry or specifically "shelves of eyes"? I have never heard of anyone struggling with "eyes" but have met several women while dancing that had DID. I don't know if this answers your question...

 

[nautical999]

yes this answers my question. It was about the eyes.
What are some of the common things you see with the DID cases?
The reason i ask is that it seems like 90% or more of those i have ministered to have been sexually abused and all of the exotic dancers i have spoken with have been as well. though i know compassion and a love is what they all need. I was wondering about ways to make the healing process go faster.

 

[BlondieLashes]

I don't want you to think I am ignoring you....My father-in-law just passed. I am finding it a bit hard to focus this morning so please forgive me for not being up to answering your questions this morning. I will get back to you asap though. For the time being you may want to google Harmony Dust Treasures....She is a great friend of mine with an awesome ministry for those in the industry. If you are interested (which it sounds like you are) in helping those in the industry you may want to contact her. You are spot on with knowing compassion and love is what is needed and having an understanding friend certainly does make the healing process better...I don't really know how to make it faster though except with God and prayer. You are also right about sexual abuse being prevalent in the women in the industry. Not in all cases but in the majority. It is true for myself. I will have to get back to you about the DID cases....God bless you for caring.

 

[BlondieLashes]

I know I just said I wasn't going to answer this this morning but have changed my mind as it may be good to get my mind on other things...

The two women I have known in the industry with DID both presented in ways that were characteristic of DID...they displayed multiple personalities that would surface at different times. The most memorable for me is a woman that was a dancer with me that would revert to a small child. Her voice would change and her whole personality. She truly became like a small child. It was disturbing. The other woman was more along the lines of someone that would find different writing in her journal and things around her apartment that didn't belong to her....

 

[nautical999]

Please take your time on answering. Family must come first in situations such as this. I will answer what you have written but there is no need for an immediate response. I did want to respond to where you had said it was disturbing that your friend would be a young child. If the reality of it was brought to your attention you might think otherwise. In my experience (again i will use the examples that i know) something traumatic happened to that person at that age. Lets say for instance when this woman was three years old she was raped by a family member, This caused the little child to dissociate in order to move on with her life without feeling all the pain and hurt and confusion from the incident. However when she dissociated the new personality moves on with life and the old one the one that was hurt relives this over and over again. Lets say the woman is now thirty. For 27 years the child inside has been raped and abused by the same person over and over again. a lot of times there are demons involved as well that hurt this child too on the inside. When the child feels comfortable enough to come out and safe enough they do. When they do it is a relief for them. Yes they still hurt and have that pain but at that moment when they are out it is like a break from the trauma from the things going on and on on the inside. These children need so much love. They need the healing that only Jesus Christ can bring.
I myself do not find them disturbing. I find them to be them most deserving of Jesus' love.

 

[nautical999]

I have been looking at that site and i have to say it is amazing. How wonderful it is that women who have been through it are helping those who are going through it and getting out of it. What a blessing.

 

[BlondieLashes]

Nautical999- What I meant by it being disturbing was just being around someone who would snap back into being a little child. She was not really a friend of mine, just someone that danced at the same club. I am just shy of my internship for my Master's in Psychology so I totally understand the dynamic of what occurs with DID, I just personally found it to be difficult to be around at the time. I wasn't in the best of places myself though.

Yes, TREASURES rocks!

 

[nautical999]

sorry if i came off a little defensive. I have been able to minister to so mant with DID and have a big heart for them.

 

[BlondieLashes]

No worries. That is awesome that you have been able to minister to those with DID!!!!!!!!!! That is an amazing calling.

 

[sdmsanjose]

BlondieLashes
Open question to those not in the industry...and those who are...
I've decided to write a book on the Sex Industry based mainly on my own story, but I am wondering what other people would be interested in in a book on the industry...

I would be interested in hearing about those in the industry that have success stories. Especially those that have LONG term success.

 

[BlondieLashes]

I would be interested in hearing about those in the industry that have success stories. Especially those that have LONG term success.

Check your PM box...

 

[nautical999]

sdmsanjose

hello and how are you?

I myself have been out of the industry for approximately eight years and since then have gotten into the ministry doing God's work and if that wasn't the best thing God could do for me he added to it. I have my children and my wife back. I own a successful business and am making significantly more than i ever did in the industry. That isn't even the half of it. Since i got out i feel so much better about myself. I am no longer on drugs and since getting healing for the issue that surrounded my decisions to work in the industry i have been filled with a piece beyond measure. There is a life afterward. And it is good.

 

[sdmsanjose]

Nautical999

You are very encouraging. Your restoration and victories are what lifts me up. Thank you for sharing with us such redemption and a positive life!

Stan

 

[nautical999]

you are welcome Stan. God is a God of healing and He wants to see all that pain taken away and place in it's stead peace love and joy. Like I said there is another life after the industry. And it can be better than anything you have ever seen. God Bless you.