Hey, so I'm just over a week off being nineteen, and, as the story goes, I have met a guy. He's really sweet and he is a Christian. We actually met through my godparents.
But my dad won't let me date. Not until I have "finished my studies". And whilst I can understand why he says that, it's starting to get ridiculous. Lately he's been saying that there's no reason why I need to get in a relationship before I am thirty!
I want to respect my father in this, but I have always assumed that I would be married with kids by the time I reach thirty.
I have been finished school for about a year and a half, and through a complicated story, I will only be starting university next year, meaning I'll be twenty-three when I finish. Even twenty-three is later than I wanted.
What makes it hard is that each time I reach his age limit, he extends it.
Has anyone been in this situation? How do I handle this? I don't want to ruin the relationship between us, but I don't want to stay single forever.
But my dad won't let me date. Not until I have "finished my studies". And whilst I can understand why he says that, it's starting to get ridiculous. Lately he's been saying that there's no reason why I need to get in a relationship before I am thirty!
I want to respect my father in this, but I have always assumed that I would be married with kids by the time I reach thirty.
I have been finished school for about a year and a half, and through a complicated story, I will only be starting university next year, meaning I'll be twenty-three when I finish. Even twenty-three is later than I wanted.
What makes it hard is that each time I reach his age limit, he extends it.
Has anyone been in this situation? How do I handle this? I don't want to ruin the relationship between us, but I don't want to stay single forever.