I hadn't even noticed, but thanks for addressing it.
Tight mini skirts and crop tops at a funeral? Especially in the middle of winter? Of course I thought it was inappropriate, and so did most people in attendance.
I thought that was normal.
Even not considering modesty, it was 20 F degrees, -6 C for those outside the US.
Some people like cold showers.
Some sit in ice. Haven't you seen
this?
Then there is this:
Ice Swimming
Swimming Naked In Freezing Water: Europe’s Trendy Winter Adventure
Although swimming naked in cold water during the hardest days of winter could seem like an activity for the brave at heart, it’s growing into a trend and gaining momentum every year among everybody over the age of 16 around Europe.
In addition to its daring quality and the simple thrill, the main reasons for the popularity of what’s known as ‘Viking style swimming’ are the mental and physical health benefits attached to one or two minutes at a time of immersing into freezing water.
The teetering high heels are further inappropriate for an eleven-year-old girl, whose skeletal system is still forming. Many women can attribute their current foot problems to the overwearing of high heels in their younger years. It at least shouldn't be done until the skeletal system is completely developed and has stopped growing.
It's good that you are concerned about the child.
If you were friends, or family, you might be in a position to help her.
I do believe their outfits would have also been inappropriate in summer, as this was a religious service conducted by an ordained minister. The outfits they wore were better suited to a night club than to a funeral.
You seem concerned about it, and this is understandable, since it's not dress befitting a Christian. In other words, it doesn't identify the individual as a real Christian.
This is not surprising to millions of people around the world. It's actually a common feature, especially at funerals.
Why not view it as it really is, though.
Christianity of this world isn't about decorum. It's quite different to what Jesus started.
If you ask a million people in a crowd, if they are Christian, you'll likely get a "Yes" from most. What makes them Christian? "Just believe in Jesus Christ."
You well know, you will find some of these in politics.
However, when you listen to the words coming from their mouth, and observe their behavior, does it match what they identify as?
What did Jesus say... "By their fruits..." You know the rest. Matthew 7:16
If we view it in the right light, we would neither be surprised nor disturbed, but rather, it would be what we expect.
You're right thought. They do dress like they do, when they go clubbing.
In the case of this particular mother and daughter, however, the way they dressed for the funeral was the same way they usually dressed for any church service, and I for one don't think it's right. Although I suppose it's better to see them go to church dressed for a night club than to not go to church at all.
True.
What we would hope to see happen, is that they learn what it means to be a follower of Christ and the teachings he gave his disciples.
I think you have a good heart, being concerned about people.
I like that. Some persons couldn't care less about what other people believe or think. Which is really sad.