Since I was sent to this forum,
The "Word of faith" form isn't real accepting of serious questions. They don't appreciate folks messing with their little fantasies. I won;t be going back there either - for a while.
I'll ask here. Is God good?
ALL THE TIME!!!!
"I was taught in WoF circles that God is only good and never does evil."
ANd they're absolutely CORRECT about that, of course. WE, however don't really KNOW "Good from Evil" and what the TOXIC WoF folks call "Evil" may be the BEST THING for us - in God's economy. HE IS playing for ETERNAL values, not temporal ones.
Re: ROm 8:28-30
Everybody knows "All things work together for the GOOD of those who love the lord and are the called according to HIS Purpose", and almost nobody seems to be aware that God's PURPOSE< and the DEFENITION of the "Good" is given in 29, and 30.
"But the bible says otherwise. Isaiah 45:7 says he does both peace and calamity. Light and darkness".
And He KILLS and He Makes alive, and Jesus says: "don't fear the one who kills the body - FEAR the one who WHEN He has killed, casts into HELL". it's all part of RIGHTEOUS JUDGEMENT.
YOU (and I) were SINNERS - fallen short of His glory, and subject to a completely RIGHTEOUS termination any time God decided to do it, and that WOULD NOT be evil - it would be Justice. BUt I'm no longer under a death sentence, and neither are YOU if you're Christian. And neither of us deserved anything but hell. That's a GOOD thing.
"God seemed to enjoy smiting people in the old testament."
It would be YOUR assumption that He "Enjoyed it".
"We can say God is holy, he has his own ways of doing things. Okay. But then why do we call him good?"
Because HE's the very DEFINITION of Good, He can't be anything OTHER than good.
"I wouldn't call a man who kills his kids, gives them fatal diseases, poverty, death, the curse, misery and suffering a "good" father. That sounds like anything but."
Except it was US the Caused all that when we gave HIM the "MIddle finger" and sided with satan against Him. We simply reap the fruits of our own depravity.
HE has, however, made a way of escape -
"Perhaps God or religion's answer is that "good" doesn't mean the same thing to God as it does to us."
What was your first clue???? HIS ways are higher than our ways, and he has a plan for the ages which is ON Schedule, and IN Budget.
"Aren't we just playing word games?"
That's what "Religion" is for the most part.