I admit that I used to stipulate, in sermons/talks,those things which were evidence of what constituted a good christian!! These included avoiding the wearing of jewellry,not watching TV, going to theatre, cinema, not listening to any music which was not Christian, etc. "Shock!! horror!!!" you may say, but I came from quite a legalistic background.
One of the things that I have found is having broken free from a background where spirituality is measured by the performance standards of the church, I realise the harm I done when I see others that have done/doing the same as me. I was even one who condemned other faiths because they did not subscribe to the same doctrines and understanding as me
God has turned me around in a big way, in allowing me to understand that good works is a result of the indwelling presence of God in me, rather than the means to getting that indwelling. It is God taking over my desire and allowing me to abide in him!!
However it can be so difficult to educate those who think you have sold out and dropped your "standards". For example for years I wanted to grow my hair in dreads and to wear a crucifix. Although the issue is no longer pressing ( I prefer bald/short hair now..LOL. Click here if your curious) it was something that really frustrated me. I was taught where the spirit of the Lord is there is liberty, then it appeared my liberty or freedom was taken from me....tantamount to false advertising!!!
How have you dealt with this kind of legalism amongst Christians whether in church, family or friends?
Or is this only my experience? Do you have any tools other than prayer that you have found successful in explaining/sharing your point or freedom in Christ?
How do you explain to them that "being in the world, not of the world", is as John Stott (Issues Facing Christians Today) explains either escaping or engaing the world, and that 'engagement means turning our faces towards the world in compassion, getting our hands dirty, sore and worn in it service, and feeling deep within us the stirring of the love of God which cannot be contained?
Dave
One of the things that I have found is having broken free from a background where spirituality is measured by the performance standards of the church, I realise the harm I done when I see others that have done/doing the same as me. I was even one who condemned other faiths because they did not subscribe to the same doctrines and understanding as me
God has turned me around in a big way, in allowing me to understand that good works is a result of the indwelling presence of God in me, rather than the means to getting that indwelling. It is God taking over my desire and allowing me to abide in him!!
However it can be so difficult to educate those who think you have sold out and dropped your "standards". For example for years I wanted to grow my hair in dreads and to wear a crucifix. Although the issue is no longer pressing ( I prefer bald/short hair now..LOL. Click here if your curious) it was something that really frustrated me. I was taught where the spirit of the Lord is there is liberty, then it appeared my liberty or freedom was taken from me....tantamount to false advertising!!!
How have you dealt with this kind of legalism amongst Christians whether in church, family or friends?
Or is this only my experience? Do you have any tools other than prayer that you have found successful in explaining/sharing your point or freedom in Christ?
How do you explain to them that "being in the world, not of the world", is as John Stott (Issues Facing Christians Today) explains either escaping or engaing the world, and that 'engagement means turning our faces towards the world in compassion, getting our hands dirty, sore and worn in it service, and feeling deep within us the stirring of the love of God which cannot be contained?
Dave