If a heterosexual MALE hits on a disinterested heterosexual WOIMAN, or vice versa, is what I was suggesting.
Well, that question would be a tough one to understand.
You're asking why a heterosexual woman shouldn't react badly if she gets hit on by a heterosexual man?
Many do.
Especially if the man is out of her league. Generally if they're not upset the guy is sorely let down.
If you're asking why it's different?
You wouldn't understand and if you could you wouldnt be asking the question in the first place.
And I really would like to try to understand why you think a homosexual hitting on a heterosexual is such a terrible thing, but a heterosexual hitting on a homosexual is perfectly fine.
We can go there again, we'll have the same conversation as always.
Most likely reply from a homosexual is that they find hetero sex disturbing, but only after I point out what I'm about to say.
I've talked with "several gay men and lesbians who have had sexual encounters with people of the opposite sex.
And while I'm not saying all homosexuals find sex with hetero's acceptable, I have seen where a greater number of them can or do enjoy it from time to time.
But thats from chatting with people online.
Some in person. Heck I have a lesbian friend who is open and stayed in a sexual relationship with a guy for over a year.
While I have yet to hear from a hetero that they have every had sex with a homosexual. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but it would seem to be a rarity. Even some of the straight, pro gay posters in this thread wont admit to ever having homosexual sex.