- Apr 11, 2006
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Thank you for your post. I will pray for you and your husband. Maybe our husbands go fishing together? Lol. Mine actually is more into hunting but whatever he can find to do. He has been much better this past week. My husband did this when we were first married and then for several years he was a great husband. Today I am not sure where we stand. He really does not get how what he said to me affected me and will always be on the back of my mind. I have told him but, in his mind he said he was sorry and now I need to get over it. I am trying through prayer but I have to admit. I am keeping my head on straight I keep thinking of all the woman I hear about who have been married for 20 something years and their "perfect" marriage comes to a end with no warning. I refuse to be unprepared but I will do everything I can to save my family. Someone once told me "A woman should always have enough money set aside to be able to leave if she needs to" I never have but I think after this, I just might. Is it being untruthful keeping money hidden away just "in case"? I am not sure how I feel about it but, I do think I would feel somewhat more secure. I hope you find some happiness with your husband. I do think we sometimes loose ourselves when we are married. God Bless you!Godshelper said:I believe I know how you feel. He sounds alot like my husband. He is a believer in christ but to meet him you would never know it. I don't know of any suggestions for you really but I am here if you would like to talk. My husband is either fishing or getting ready to go fishing. He does work and he works hard but once he clocks out at work it is like he has no other concerns but what he wants to do. If I acted like he does in this marriage he certainly would not stay with me. We have been married for 7 years and it just gets worse because I let it. I work full time and take care of everything else. He works and his time off work is his time. I am to my wits end with it all.
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