My example was "do what you want to the girl" (which could be daughter, wife, girlfriend, random stranger), not "do what you want to my offspring". But even if I did go with offspring, evolutionary psychology trying to explain love presupposes the thing it's trying to explain. I have no reason to have any practical interest in passing on my genes unless I already "care".
In the evolutionary psychology view, caring about your offspring (or the tribes offsping generally in a social species) precedes individual choice making or reasoning. Its hard wired into us. This seems pretty sensible, as beings with this strong
instinct will naturally persist and replace those who are without it, or in whom its weak. Its extremely reasonable that we'd inherit this instinct, and thats how you already care.
I always thought an interesting "compare and contrast" assignment would be comparing Richard Dawkins' The Selfish Gene with the novel/film Catch-22. I don't know if you're familiar with either of those works, but in Catch-22, the lead character has been drafted into WWII and is what we might call a coward, or at least very individualistic. He's tired of those Germans trying to kill him (who wouldn't be?) and he doesn't want to fight for his country. A fellow airman asks "what if everyone thought like you do?" He replies "then I'd be a fool to think any different".
Rejection of cowardice in social groups is well accounted for in the evolutionary psychology pov. Its essential for the persistence of the tribe. Tribes that value courage will have a particular advantage over those which dont.
I often find naturalistic explanations lacking.
I do find a lot of them to be conjectural, but reasonable.
I guess I don't understand you. I'm trying to meet you half-way by just hinting at teleology, but you seem to be asserting it outright.
I was just pointing to the emergence of a new thing as not requiring a proximate maker in the way that we know a cake does. I do think certain objects absolutely do require a conscious maker. Like cakes and airplanes. We know directly how those come about.
Other things like whales and trees very evidently do not require a conscious maker to emerge over time from very rudimentary multicellular life. As for the journey from organic molecules to multicellular life, thats still somewhat up in the air, but the trend favors a naturalistic explanation, especially as we are finding physical explanations for the organic molecule ingredients.
Okay fair enough. I guess it boils down to the eternality of matter and laws which govern the matter, versus the eternality of something like a creative Mind which could invent laws and matter.
I'm not sure the laws have a reality on their own apart from human minds. Laws seem to be
our description of what matter does. At bottom what does exist is matter doing what it does. Its not "obeying" laws or anything like that. An electron does what it does, end of story. Laws and properties are all conceptualizations that help us grasp the situation. But they should not necessarily be projected back onto the things as "real". I dont want to make too much of this tho. Its a bit of a side track, i think.
Since we have no evidence of matter and laws creating themselves, the latter seems more reasonable to me.
What I dont get it why you privilege one no-evidence proposition (divine realm) in favor of another no-evidence proposition (eternal matter and energy situation) in terms of reasonableness. On the basis of
evidence (namely
none thats objective
) I find them equally reasonable. But the divine realm proposition has the severe disadvantage of also requiring a whole other kind of non-evidenced world in addition to the one thats apparent to us all.
But like I said earlier, reasonableness is not the same as truth. I'm only arguing about what reasonable. Your truth may end up correct even if I'm right and your truth is
less reasonable by current evidence and rationality.