I used to be anorexic for over ten years and still struggle very much with a negative body image. One big reason for the is the stric belief I grew up with. For a long time, I didn't even think being anorexic was bad. I learned that as Christians, we are to deprive ourselves of everything we can. So if I deprived myself of food, that was fine and what God wanted. And the more I destroyed my body, the happier God was with me.
This is one of the things which, to this day, pulls me back. I have a low, but healthy weight and people in my environment say I should not lose any. my doctor told me not to fast at all since I generally have rather low blood sugar and chronic migraine and am a bit underweight, my family would not want me to go through that again and since I tutor kids, I'd get in trouble at the tutoring facilities if I started wasting away.
Yet, there are days when everything inside me screams at me that God wants me to suffer, that He doesn't want me to be healthy because the more I suffer, the better I am as a Christian. Being at a healthy weight means taking care of my body, but God doesn't want me to take care of my body and it would be better for me to be malnourished and ill and isolated than healthy, but enjoying things or taking care of my body.
How can I try to be healthy and to eat normally and to accept myself the way I am when God actually wants me to be very underweight, very ill and suffering? I keep having these thoughts and they pull me back to feeling that if I was Anorexic again, I'd be a lot more what God wants. Are these thoughts right? Is it actually good to suffer and to be ill?
I'm so confused and so frightened. I will never be able to leave the anorexia behind if I keep feeling like that is what God wanted. Does He want us to be damaged and suffering and torturing ourselves? Is there anything in the Bible that says He doesn't? I so want to be healthy, not in this place between life and death, but some people on here and elsewhere talk as if it was bad to be healthy or eating healthy.
This is one of the things which, to this day, pulls me back. I have a low, but healthy weight and people in my environment say I should not lose any. my doctor told me not to fast at all since I generally have rather low blood sugar and chronic migraine and am a bit underweight, my family would not want me to go through that again and since I tutor kids, I'd get in trouble at the tutoring facilities if I started wasting away.
Yet, there are days when everything inside me screams at me that God wants me to suffer, that He doesn't want me to be healthy because the more I suffer, the better I am as a Christian. Being at a healthy weight means taking care of my body, but God doesn't want me to take care of my body and it would be better for me to be malnourished and ill and isolated than healthy, but enjoying things or taking care of my body.
How can I try to be healthy and to eat normally and to accept myself the way I am when God actually wants me to be very underweight, very ill and suffering? I keep having these thoughts and they pull me back to feeling that if I was Anorexic again, I'd be a lot more what God wants. Are these thoughts right? Is it actually good to suffer and to be ill?
I'm so confused and so frightened. I will never be able to leave the anorexia behind if I keep feeling like that is what God wanted. Does He want us to be damaged and suffering and torturing ourselves? Is there anything in the Bible that says He doesn't? I so want to be healthy, not in this place between life and death, but some people on here and elsewhere talk as if it was bad to be healthy or eating healthy.
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