- Feb 7, 2012
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We learned yesterday that my sister-in-law, who was 5 days past her 22nd(!) birthday died in her sleep. It was a shock since she had no serious health problems. My wife with our 1 yr old, and I have been separated for the past week or so due to regularly scheduled trips on opposite sides of the country. Our communication has been basic and I don't wish to overwhelm her any more than she already is. We are meeting up again tomorrow night (Mon) at our local airport and I have no idea how to care for her during this tragedy. My sister-in-law was the sweetest, most joyful woman of God you would ever know. My wife and her were very close. What are ways that you have loved your spouse during their time of grief? How has He given you and your family strength during sad times? I still have to work a lot and I won't be able to spend much time with her except at the funeral (tbd) and on Sundays, my day off. How can I make the most of this time with her when she is devastated? I have had extended family die, but before I was fully mature or present with someone's suffering. I need advice. My wife is a believer.