I completely agree with jenptcfan. I ascribe to the Complementarian position, that is, men and women are created equally before God, but different. The differences between man and woman are complementary. I think that "mutual submission" is an unbiblical concept what with all the instruction by Paul that women are to be submissive to their husbands. However, husbands are not in a one-sided relationship, they are one flesh with their wives. Women are to be held in the highest respect as capable of that which is characteristic of their creation in the image of God. Husbands are to love their wives as Christ loves the Church, which is both strong leadership and strong servantship, to present their wives holy and blameless before God. The husband and wife are to be of one mind in marriage at all times possible, and should strive to be. However, when agreement cannot be reached on an important decision, it is up to the husband, the spiritual leader, to make the final decision in line with God's Word. It is his responsibility to make the right decision that is best for the situation, a responsibility of which he should be fully capable. In deciding what is ultimately best, the wife should submit to the final authority of the husband, recognizing his leadership. He also must take the responsibility of the consequences of his leadership before God and men. The husband has all the responsibility of being a godly husband according to God's commands in Scripture.
This is far from an adequate summary of the Complementarian position, so I encourage you all to read material from this site:
http://www.cbmw.org/
And its news site:
http://www.gender-news.com/
Blessings,
Ben