Does your age make you feel insecure when it comes to trying to find someone to date or possibly marry?
I'm in my mid-forties, and I know that's not terribly old, but it does make a difference in my physical abilities, especially since I started life with some physical disability and had serious injuries while I was still young. It has gotten worse with age.
I don't feel like I'm over the hill, but I'm no spring chicken either. I'm not looking to be with a younger man, but I can't help but feel that I am not as appealing as someone in their 20's or 30's even to men my own age and older.
I'm also not wanting something exciting. I'm wanting something stable, friendly, kind, and gentle. Slow moving. It seems that most people who are out searching do not want slow and stable but instead want fast and adventuresome, thrilling.
The thing is that I'm not even wanting to change (does that also come with age?). I like what I hope for in a relationship and don't want to be with a person who would make me worry about my appearance, age, or physical capabilities. So I wonder if it is time to just give up the thought or hope of a good relationship with someone at this point in my life. I feel very insecure about myself when I try to talk to men.
I'm in my mid-forties, and I know that's not terribly old, but it does make a difference in my physical abilities, especially since I started life with some physical disability and had serious injuries while I was still young. It has gotten worse with age.
I don't feel like I'm over the hill, but I'm no spring chicken either. I'm not looking to be with a younger man, but I can't help but feel that I am not as appealing as someone in their 20's or 30's even to men my own age and older.
I'm also not wanting something exciting. I'm wanting something stable, friendly, kind, and gentle. Slow moving. It seems that most people who are out searching do not want slow and stable but instead want fast and adventuresome, thrilling.
The thing is that I'm not even wanting to change (does that also come with age?). I like what I hope for in a relationship and don't want to be with a person who would make me worry about my appearance, age, or physical capabilities. So I wonder if it is time to just give up the thought or hope of a good relationship with someone at this point in my life. I feel very insecure about myself when I try to talk to men.