Children are not responsible for coming into the world, but they come into the world in original sin and need to be redeemed. Baptism cleanses them from sin until they reach the age of reason and are capable of mortal sin
I can still remember my first mortal sin . It was when my parents sent me to the store to a few groceries. I was seven years old and a boy that I thought was a friend came along. He convinced me to buy a toy that I was not authorized to buy, so it was effectively stealing from my parents.
I knew it was wrong and weakly protested, but the boy told me to do it anyway. I thought that the cashier would tell us we did not have enough money, but it was sufficient and we even got change. I felt a strange admiration for the boy in that he could do what was wrong and have no consequence, or so I thought. Being seven I did not know that the receipt would show an excess expense. I was found out and legitimately punished. Seven is the age when a Catholic child goes to first confession and makes first communion because we are capable of mortal sin and able to understand that Jesus suffered and died for us, as well as offering His flesh and blood for us to eat for spiritual strength. I did not know that on my own, but had to be taught or catechized
Jesus forgives our sins, but sin also requires a temporal punishment. In the case of stealing, true penance would involve restitution, but since I was seven and incapable of restitution, I had to endure corporeal punishment.
God loves all of us created in His image but we are not the same. Heaven is a kingdom, not a democracy. There is a hierarchy which we are required to obey. God says that He desires obedience rather than sacrifice. We need to obey others legitimately put in charge of us.
Parents are charged to teach their children and children are charged to obey their parents. The family is where children begin to learn about God, and we teach them God’s commandments
In the Church there is a hierarchy as Paul says in Ephesians. We are all given different gifts, but we all work together for the body of Christ
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gave some apostles, and some prophets, and other some evangelists, and other some pastors and doctors,
12 For the perfecting of the saints, for the work of the ministry, for the edifying of the body of Christ:
13 Until we all meet into the unity of faith, and of the knowledge of the Son of God, unto a perfect man, unto the measure of the age of the fulness of Christ;
14 That henceforth we be no more children tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine by the wickedness of men, by cunning craftiness, by which they lie in wait to deceive.
15 But doing the truth in charity, we may in all things grow up in him who is the head, even Christ:
He specifically says that not all members of the body of Christ are the same. 1 Corinthians 12 gives an excellent explanation
11 But all these things one and the same Spirit worketh, dividing to every one according as he will.
12 For as the body is one, and hath many members; and all the members of the body, whereas they are many, yet are one body, so also is Christ.
13 For in one Spirit were we all baptized into one body, whether Jews or Gentiles, whether bond or free; and in one Spirit we have all been made to drink.
14 For the body also is not one member, but many.
15 If the foot should say, because I am not the hand, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body?
16 And if the ear should say, because I am not the eye, I am not of the body; is it therefore not of the body?
17 If the whole body were the eye, where would be the hearing? If the whole were hearing, where would be the smelling?
18 But now God hath set the members every one of them in the body as it hath pleased him.
19 And if they all were one member, where would be the body?
20 But now there are many members indeed, yet one body.
21 And the eye cannot say to the hand: I need not thy help; nor again the head to the feet: I have no need of you.
22 Yea, much more those that seem to be the more feeble members of the body, are more necessary.
23 And such as we think to be the less honourable members of the body, about these we put more abundant honour; and those that are our uncomely parts, have more abundant comeliness.
24 But our comely parts have no need: but God hath tempered the body together, giving to that which wanted the more abundant honour,
25 That there might be no schism in the body; but the members might be mutually careful one for another.
26 And if one member suffer any thing, all the members suffer with it; or if one member glory, all the members rejoice with it.
27 Now you are the body of Christ, and members of member.
28 And God indeed hath set some in the church; first apostles, secondly prophets, thirdly doctors; after that miracles; then the graces of healing, helps, governments, kinds of tongues, interpretations of speeches.
29 Are all apostles? Are all prophets? Are all doctors?
30 Are all workers of miracles? Have all the grace of healing? Do all speak with tongues? Do all interpret?
31 But be zealous for the better gifts. And I shew unto you yet a more excellent way.
You are right that God is not a respecter of persons, but He has arranged His body in a hierarchal structure and we owe obedience to it, not rebellion against it. We do not respect the persons of the hierarchy, as they are but men, but we do respect the offices of the hierarchy as they were put in place by God for His good pleasure. All members work together for good, but not all members work the same job.
Obedience to the hierarchy is a mark of humility and one of the reasons Jesus says that to come after Him, we are to be as little children
I thought as a conservative you would understand hierarchal structures, as it is the Marxists that try to shove egalitarianism down our throats to the detriment of society. Paul says we cannot all be eyes or all ears, but we must work together.
If you tried to make us all the same, then we would become as every people where communism has been tried. Loss of freedom, loss of hope, millions of deaths with abject poverty for most