- Sep 28, 2012
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After reading more internet articles and forums regarding christian singles and the reasoning behind so many wanting marriage but cannot find partners, I know of one culprit for certain.
Dating apps, even the likes of eHarmony, are flawed when it comes to filtering out one's desires and preferences.
I explicitly put over and over that I do not want someone who drinks alcohol in any capacity nor do I want children. Every match I get are women who want one or both and it just gets old. I have walked away from apps and websites and the church is no better, when I even go.
It just seems to be a hopeless road that ends with me driving off a cliff into oblivion.
Has anyone else been less than satisfied with the results of matches or filtering systems with these?
Should I just accept my fate with my non-negotiables?
Dating apps, even the likes of eHarmony, are flawed when it comes to filtering out one's desires and preferences.
I explicitly put over and over that I do not want someone who drinks alcohol in any capacity nor do I want children. Every match I get are women who want one or both and it just gets old. I have walked away from apps and websites and the church is no better, when I even go.
It just seems to be a hopeless road that ends with me driving off a cliff into oblivion.
Has anyone else been less than satisfied with the results of matches or filtering systems with these?
Should I just accept my fate with my non-negotiables?