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Elliemare
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Is it just me or does anyone else feel self-conscious when working with, talking to, dealing with men? Especially in the church?
I feel terribly uncomfortable around men, particularly in the church setting. I do a lot of volunteering at church and there are lots of men on the various teams I work with. I get uncomfortable if I get into too lengthy a conversation with a man. I don't like to make eye contact with them and I fear I may come across as too friendly, or the opposite and seem rude out of fear of sending mixed signals?
I don't know if this is due to my past history in the sex industry or my past experience with men and sex in general? Probably a combination of all of those things.
I have been victimized by men so many times that I just don't feel comfortable around them. I want to be comfortable in my own skin and be able to be myself. I know I should be able to trust Godly church going men, but we all know that even good men can fall into sin... and I just don't trust any of them.
I feel terribly uncomfortable around men, particularly in the church setting. I do a lot of volunteering at church and there are lots of men on the various teams I work with. I get uncomfortable if I get into too lengthy a conversation with a man. I don't like to make eye contact with them and I fear I may come across as too friendly, or the opposite and seem rude out of fear of sending mixed signals?
I don't know if this is due to my past history in the sex industry or my past experience with men and sex in general? Probably a combination of all of those things.
I have been victimized by men so many times that I just don't feel comfortable around them. I want to be comfortable in my own skin and be able to be myself. I know I should be able to trust Godly church going men, but we all know that even good men can fall into sin... and I just don't trust any of them.