Today at 05:35 PM Exodus said this in Post #19
Ok. How much should I be attracted PHYSICALLY to think I have a basis for marriage. I am 75% attracted. But I have been 95% attracted in my previous relationship. And I was hoping to get around 90% this time. Sorry to be using numbers, but I thought that is the best way to communicate the situation. Don't forget there is also a 90% mental and personality attraction.
13th March 2003 at 05:30 PM S Walch said this in Post #36
You have yo love your wife on the outside as well as the inside.
I don't think it would work if it was one or the other.
Today at 03:27 PM coastie said this in Post #38
That is incorrect.
My aunt on my wife's side (I promise I'm not talking about you, uncle dave ) is very attractive and she married a very average looking bus driver. This aunt could probably marry many different men, but she chose her current husband because he is an extremely nice guy and genuinely loved her.
They look like the world's most mismatched couple, yet they seem totally in love.
Now from personal experience, I thought my wife was attractive when we were dating, then when we got married, the more I grew to love her, the more beautiful she became. Now that she's pregnant, when she thinks she look's her worst, I am absolutely floored with how beautiful she has become.
A person's looks are not important. To judge a person on their appearance is to be a shallow and naive person. I can say that, because I used to do the same thing.
Do you mean to say, that your aunt didnt like the look of her husband when she married him?
Or, are you saying she liked the way he looked - but liked his personality more?
Today at 06:59 PM coastie said this in Post #41
Niether, the point is that she was more interested in him than his looks.
Although - I don't think you could marry someone whom you couldn't stand the sight of.