I'm 17 years old and I've been this one guy for a year and a half. We have a great connection and we're really close. We're both Christians and are waiting until marriage.. But I don't want to get married anytime soon. And I don't know if I want to be with him, I feel like I can't escape. I've already broken up with him multiple times for different issues in the past, and in those moments where I'm away from him I feel great and so much closer to God. But he then always convinces me and says he just wants to talk, and it ends up us getting back together. Then whenever we fight, he'll say if I don't want to be with him I just shouldn't be with him. But I feel like if I do break up with him he just won't accept it and keep pressuring me or show up at my house (like he's done once before).. I always have these things in the back of my head, it's like I can't live in peace until I get this resolved. I literally cannot focus on anything. My homework, if I read something I won't fully comprehend it because it's like I have a mind block because of the thoughts just bombarding my brain literally 24/7. But I feel like I'll spare so many problems if I just stay with him and just cope with the thoughts in my head that are telling me otherwise. I don't want to get married until I'm fully developed in my relationship with the Lord and more mature, and I feel like these are vital moments in my life where I should be doing just that but I am too confused and lost because of the situation I'm in.