Hi there!
I am recently married (almost 9 months) and am on the pill. I have no problems with being on the pill or people using contraception, but that's not really what this thread is about.
Over the past few months, I have been thinking a lot about starting a family, particularly is pregnancy based on our will or Gods will?
This is something that i'm really struggling with in the sense that I kow of people who have gotten pregnant when medically, they shouldn't have been able to. So you can argue that was obviously God. But what about teeneage pregnancies, or babies that are born into abusive families? I know that God doesn't want those children to suffer, yet they do. I realise that there is an element of free choice in here i.e. if you are having sex, especially unprotected sex, you should be prepared to possibly get pregnant. And what about babies that are a product of rape? But does God interfare with free will in the sense that if I'm on the pill he's going to respect that? but then again, people DO get pregnant on the pill.
My husband and I are very much looking forward to starting a family of our own someday, the fear is that we give up birth control now we won't be financially ready when a child comes along. Because, as far as we know, there is no reason why I wouldn't get pregnant right away. But God wouldn't give us a child if he wasn't able to help us provide for it - would he?
Ok, this is probably making very little sense, but I would hugely appreciate any thoughts/experience you have on this topic.
Thanks in advance
I am recently married (almost 9 months) and am on the pill. I have no problems with being on the pill or people using contraception, but that's not really what this thread is about.
Over the past few months, I have been thinking a lot about starting a family, particularly is pregnancy based on our will or Gods will?
This is something that i'm really struggling with in the sense that I kow of people who have gotten pregnant when medically, they shouldn't have been able to. So you can argue that was obviously God. But what about teeneage pregnancies, or babies that are born into abusive families? I know that God doesn't want those children to suffer, yet they do. I realise that there is an element of free choice in here i.e. if you are having sex, especially unprotected sex, you should be prepared to possibly get pregnant. And what about babies that are a product of rape? But does God interfare with free will in the sense that if I'm on the pill he's going to respect that? but then again, people DO get pregnant on the pill.
My husband and I are very much looking forward to starting a family of our own someday, the fear is that we give up birth control now we won't be financially ready when a child comes along. Because, as far as we know, there is no reason why I wouldn't get pregnant right away. But God wouldn't give us a child if he wasn't able to help us provide for it - would he?
Ok, this is probably making very little sense, but I would hugely appreciate any thoughts/experience you have on this topic.
Thanks in advance