The last time I cut was in 2010. However, I'm tempted to cut now since I apparently scared off the last person I went on a date with, and am getting closer to being 31 and feel like everyone else is able to have a steady relationship but I'm too cursed and/or ugly.
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Kristen.NewCreation and FreeinChrist
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Stay strong my brother in God!
Finding a person to have a relationship with is tough, but don't let that be the reason for you hurting yourself! You are not cursed nor are you ugly. You'll probably brush this away cause I don't even know you, right? But keep in mind that even if I don't know you, it is still possible for me to know that you are not ugly. For you are God's child. God's children are beautiful.
If you still just brush off what I'm saying (and keep in mind that I do NOT blame you if you do, for I know how difficult it is to change negative thoughts about oneself), just remember that you are God's creation. Calling yourself ugly is calling God's child ugly. You don't really want to do that, right?
I will leave you with a few bible-verses that you hopefully can think about before you hurt yourself.
Matthew 11:28
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened,
and I will give you rest."
Psalm 34:18
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
John 16:33
“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace.
In this world you will have trouble. But take heart!
I have overcome the world.”
I will also be praying for you. Try not to hurt yourself, you've managed for more than 3 years! And that's something truly amazing. The fact that you've done that just proves that you ARE very strong. I hope that you can find the strength that you currently need.
Finding a person to have a relationship with is tough, but don't let that be the reason for you hurting yourself! You are not cursed nor are you ugly. You'll probably brush this away cause I don't even know you, right? But keep in mind that even if I don't know you, it is still possible for me to know that you are not ugly. For you are God's child. God's children are beautiful.
If you still just brush off what I'm saying (and keep in mind that I do NOT blame you if you do, for I know how difficult it is to change negative thoughts about oneself), just remember that you are God's creation. Calling yourself ugly is calling God's child ugly. You don't really want to do that, right?
I will leave you with a few bible-verses that you hopefully can think about before you hurt yourself.
Matthew 11:28
"Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened,
and I will give you rest."
Psalm 34:18
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
John 16:33
“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace.
In this world you will have trouble. But take heart!
I have overcome the world.”
I will also be praying for you. Try not to hurt yourself, you've managed for more than 3 years! And that's something truly amazing. The fact that you've done that just proves that you ARE very strong. I hope that you can find the strength that you currently need.
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