Zaac
Well-Known Member
Let's have a serious discussion about this, OK?
Here's what I want to hear from the parents objecting to their kids being taught how other kids in their society live: What do you think the school should do when a kid comes to school who has 2 moms & other kids start treating them badly?
Defer to their parents to discipline them and teach them that we treat people the way that we want to be treated regardless of their situation. We don't have to use the school to do what the parents are to do.
What should the parents say to their kids when they come home & say "Sally has 2 dads," or "Timmy lives in 2 houses," or "Julie's mom is getting married," or "I don't like Terry because he's black," or "Jenny eats raw fish for lunch. She's icky?"
THEY should say what THEY feel to be appropriate instead of the school deciding to make that decision for what their kids are gonna be taught.
Schools are supposed to be teaching academics, not lifestyles.
I really want to know how you think parents and schools should deal with kids being mean to each other because of their parents' prejudices.
You're kidding, right? Like it's that difficult for a teacher to get across that we don't mistreat each other in this classroom. How would their parents prejudices even enter the picture if ACADEMICS are being taught?
Schools have just taken it upon themselves, because parents have let them, to be the moral influence in the lives of kids. That is STILL the parent's responsibility.
If I saw the "Yes on 8" crowd actually talking about how to talk to your kids about being nice to Johnny even though Johnny's parents are bad, I might listen. Instead I hear them saying they want to hide their heads in the sand and not have their kids exposed to the fact that other kids in the school might have different kinds of families than they have.
That's the way you want to handle it. Others want to wait and introduce the subject to their kids intheir own way.
If you want to pay the money to send your kids to a Christian school where all the families are vetted to make sure nobody's kids will be exposed to differences in the wider society, you can maybe see that their heads stay in the sand a few years longer. You can also see that they are not exposed to the way poor kids live, or all kinds of other things. But I don't want my tax dollars spent to support segregated schools.
My tax dollars are being wasted sending them to public schools where they are indoctrinated with filth and immorality. So why shouldn't I be able to use the same tax dollars to send them to a private Christian school and teach them God's way?
You don't want yours spent to support segregated schools and I don't want mine spent exposing my kids to filth and immorality. Does your right outweigh my right?
When a new girl moved into the district in my daughter's 7th grade class & came to our house for dinner, I was moved by hearing her story of how nice it was to have a friend's family accept her into their home, and how mean the kids & their parents had been to her at her old school because she had 2 moms. Teaching respect for people different from you is part of good citizenship, which has been part of school curriculums forever.
What does teaching people mutual respect for each other have to do with teaching kids to be accepting of that which is sin?
I can teach a kid to love a liar and still recognize his lies as wrong.
Upvote
0