- Jun 18, 2011
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A Christian lady is gentle and humble and honest.
"rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God." (1 Peter 3:4)
But we can be looking at and wanting what is not real beauty and getting distracted with it. And we may not be interested in pleasing our Heavenly Father, by being gentle and quiet in our spirit. So, this could keep us from appreciating a really Christian person.
If someone is gentle and quiet, it is possible for certain men to find that person to be boring . . . even though such a person is so pleasing to God. And so a man could miss out on a real lady, in his seeking for pleasure and excitement. And he might find it difficult to get a woman who meets his demands > she might find him to be boring, while he himself has by nature been condemning gentle and quiet ladies as being boring.
Being a truly great guy, then, includes that we do not judge women only by outward beauty, plus we ourselves are gentle and quiet as a good example for our sisters
Many christian women,whom I have asked out,and try to get to know,are gentle,quiet.and average looking women. But,often they will ask me,"Why are you asking me out?" One woman asked me,"Why would you want to go out with me?"
The average looking women do not feel good about themselves. If the average American women felt good about themselves,the cosmetic industry would go out of business.Therefore,they must think that there is something wrong with a man who asks them out. One woman told me,"Most guys want woman with big breasts." Maybe I should has assured her by saying,"Now,please do not take this as a negative statement,I am not asking your breasts out. I am asking......you out. I want to get to know you,the real and whole you,as a person."
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