Paul commended Phoebe, a deacon
There is nothing in Scripture to indicate that Phoebe was a pastor or a teacher of men in the church. “Able to teach” is given as a qualification for elders, but not for deacons.
Did Priscilla and her husband teach the gospel of Jesus Christ to Apollos? Yes, in their home they “explained to him the way of God more adequately”. Does the Bible ever say that Priscilla pastored a church or taught publicly or became the spiritual leader of a congregation of saints? No. As far as we know, Priscilla was not involved in ministry activity
and Junia, an apostle. He worked with Priscilla, who taught, and commended women like Lydia, who presided over worship gatherings in their homes. He mentions many women as his co-labourers, the same term he used for men in various ministry roles.
Did any of these women pastored a church or taught publicly or became the spiritual leader of a congregation of saints? No.
The structure of
1 Timothy 2:11–14 makes the reason why women cannot be pastors perfectly clear. Verse 13 begins with “for,” giving the “cause” of Paul’s statement in verses 11–12. Why should women not teach or have authority over men? Because “Adam was created first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived” (verses 13–14). God created Adam first and then created Eve to be a “helper” for Adam. The order of creation has universal application in the family
Ephesians 5:22–33 and in the church.
The fact that Eve was deceived is also given as a reason for women not serving as pastors or having spiritual authority over men
1 Timothy 2:14. This does not mean that women are gullible or that they are all more easily deceived than men.
Women in the church are not restricted from public praying or prophesying
1 Corinthians 11:5, only from having spiritual teaching authority over men. The Bible nowhere restricts women from exercising the gifts of the Holy Spirit
1 Corinthians 12. Women, just as much as men, are called to minister to others, to demonstrate the fruit of the Spirit
Galatians 5:22–23, and to proclaim the gospel to the lost
Matthew 28:18–20;
Acts 1:8;
1 Peter 3:15.
God has ordained that only men are to serve in positions of spiritual teaching authority in the church. This does not imply men are better teachers or that women are inferior or less intelligent. It is simply the way God designed the church to function. Men are to set the example in spiritual leadership—in their lives and through their words. Women are also to set an example in their lives, but in a different way
1 Peter 3:1-6. Women are encouraged to teach other women
Titus 2:3–5.. The Bible also does not restrict women from teaching children. The only activity women are restricted from is teaching or having spiritual authority over men. This bars women from serving as pastors to men. This does not make women less important, by any means; rather, it gives them a ministry focus more in agreement with God’s design.
And I suggest you not turn arguing the point into personal attack, as that is likely to fall foul of CF's flaming rules.
This was not meant as a personal attack. Rather than telling you we need to obey what the Scripture tells us to do and not do to. Female pastors are something we must stay away from.