Prove it with scripture.
Also are people Christ sheep before they believe ? Jn 10:26
26 But ye believe not, because ye are not of my sheep, as I said unto you.
Let us look at many verses together and not your "cherry picked " isolated verse where we find the following about judas who is a stumbling block for the " hyper" calvinist :
1-He was a child of the bridechamber (Matthew 9:15).
2-He was sent to the lost sheep of Israel. Jesus called unto Him His twelve disciples. (Matthew 10:1–13). See also Mark 6:7–13 and Luke 9:1–6.
3-Jesus told His disciples that if anyone would reject them or their message from Him, they would receive severe judgment (Matthew 10:14–15).
4-Judas was a sheep among wolves (Matthew 10:16).
5-In Luke 12:32 Jesus says to His disciples, “Fear not, little flock; for it is your Father’s good pleasure to give you the kingdom.”
6-He once
heard and
followed the Good Shepherd (John 10:27).
7-“He that
receiveth you
receiveth me” (Matthew 10:40).
8-He was part of Jesus’ family (Matthew 12:48–50).
9-Jesus said that His heavenly Father was the disciples’ heavenly Father by using the terms
your,
thy, and
our Father in relation to His disciples’ relationship with His Father (Matthew 10:20; 5:16, 45, 48; 6:1, 4, 6, 8, 9, 14, 15, 18, 26, 32; 7:11).
10-Judas was given to
know the mysteries of the Kingdom of heaven (Matthew 13:10–11).
11-His eyes
saw and his ears
heard—he understood (Matthew 13:16).
12-“Then
they [Judas was there!] that were in the ship came and
worshipped him, saying, Of a truth thou art the Son of God” (Matthew 14:33).
13-Matthew 19:27–28 says, “Then answered Peter and said unto him, Behold, we have forsaken all, and followed thee; what shall we have therefore? And Jesus said unto them, Verily I say unto you, that ye [always plural in the Greek] which have followed me, in the regeneration when the Son of man shall sit in the throne of his glory, ye also shall sit upon
twelve thrones, judging the
twelve tribes of Israel.” Judas was not faithful unto the end; therefore, he forfeited the promise of a throne in heaven. Judas’ fall did not negate the fact that he was promised a throne. But that promise was conditional, like all God’s promises.
14-Judas partook of the Passover. Jesus said of it in Matthew 26:18 “I will keep the Passover at thy house with
my ” “Now when the even was come, he sat down with
the twelve” (Matthew 26:20). See Luke 14:25–35 for Jesus’ definition of being His disciple (Love Him with all your heart, deny self, and take up your cross and follow Him, forsaking all else).
hope this helps !!!