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"Til death us do part"

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In the vows as used in my tradition, it's "for as long as we both shall live." I think the point is that the death of one spouse releases the other to marry again.
 
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I've always felt uncomfortable about that "til death us do part" bit in the wedding vows for the simple reason that a Christian man and wife will never be parted by death but will go to heaven and be reunited there.
Or have I got it wrong?
You don't have it wrong. The Orthodox Christian Holy Matrimony rite does not have any "til death do us part" idea in it. Orthodox clerics, for example, can be married only once, even if their wives pass on, because the ideal is that the marriage bond is eternal, and additional marriages detract from that.
 
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I've always felt uncomfortable about that "til death us do part" bit in the wedding vows for the simple reason that a Christian man and wife will never be parted by death but will go to heaven and be reunited there.
Or have I got it wrong?
Matthew 22:23-30 teaches that there will be no marriage in Heaven. Christian husbands and wives will be reunited there, but not as husband and wife.
 
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People instinctively, intuitively know that a real marriage is forever. There is a distinct difference between "forever", and "over at death". Furthermore, those who believe in Him will never die, but pass from death to life. Death is not therefore the end of a real marriage. A real marriage never ends, even if it changes its form into something more suited to Eternal Life in the Kingdom of Heaven.
 
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I've always felt uncomfortable about that "til death us do part" bit in the wedding vows for the simple reason that a Christian man and wife will never be parted by death but will go to heaven and be reunited there.
Or have I got it wrong?
There are no husbands and wives in heaven. The Bible specifically says that the death of one spouse allows the surviving spouse to remarry. Some may wish to remain single, that is a perfectly acceptable also. Marriage is something natural, for this lifetime. The next realm is spiritual and natural principles no longer apply.
 
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I've always felt uncomfortable about that "til death us do part" bit in the wedding vows for the simple reason that a Christian man and wife will never be parted by death but will go to heaven and be reunited there.
Or have I got it wrong?
Jesus Christ of Nazareth did say there will be "no marriage and no given in marriage" in the New Jerusalem. Not quite sure how all that will look like though.
Blessings
 
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Thanks people, yes Jesus said there'd be no marriage in heaven and that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God which indicates we become "spirit beings" there-
"In the twinkling of an eye the dead shall be raised imperishable and we shall be changed" (1 Cor 15:52), but he also said to his disciples at the last supper that he won't be drinking wine with them again until they meet in heaven which suggests we will meet our loved ones there, not parted by death.
My interpretation rightly or wrongly is that heaven is therefore a "soul pool" where our souls all merge into God and Jesus and our loved ones, just as raindrops falling into a lake become one lake, no more individuality, no more loneliness..:)
 
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Thanks people, yes Jesus said there'd be no marriage in heaven and that flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God which indicates we become "spirit beings" there-
"In the twinkling of an eye the dead shall be raised imperishable and we shall be changed" (1 Cor 15:52), but he also said to his disciples at the last supper that he won't be drinking wine with them again until they meet in heaven which suggests we will meet our loved ones there, not parted by death.
My interpretation rightly or wrongly is that heaven is therefore a "soul pool" where our souls all merge into God and Jesus and our loved ones, just as raindrops falling into a lake become one lake, no more individuality, no more loneliness..:)
That sounds a little closer to Eastern faiths than Christianity. Revelation doesn't describe anything like merging with God himself - rather that we will be with him, he will be our God, and we will be his people. The distinction between him and us is preserved (and from what Jesus revealed in the Gospels about Heavenly rewards and inheritence, we can infer that the distinction between each soul in Heaven is preserved as well).
 
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Depends on your denomination/views. My take on it is the bible says we can marry, but once we get to heaven, we are no longer married to whoever we were with on earth. Instead we become the bride-groom to Jesus. Which may sound weird but don't take it to literally like we are literally married to Jesus. It means we are one with the Lord.
 
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I've always felt uncomfortable about that "til death us do part" bit in the wedding vows for the simple reason that a Christian man and wife will never be parted by death but will go to heaven and be reunited there.
Or have I got it wrong?

At death you will be parted. There is no marriage in heaven, Christ states this in a scripture. You have got it wrong.

And Jesus said to them, “The sons of this age marry and are given in marriage, but those who are considered worthy to attain to that age and to the resurrection from the dead neither marry nor are given in marriage, for they cannot die anymore, because they are equal to angels and are sons of God, being sons of the resurrection.”


Peace be to all those in the Body of Christ.
 
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At death you will be parted. There is no marriage in heaven, Christ states this in a scripture. You have got it wrong.

And Jesus said to them, “The sons of this age marry and are given in marriage, but those who are considered worthy to attain to that age and to the resurrection from the dead neither marry nor are given in marriage, for they cannot die anymore, because they are equal to angels and are sons of God, being sons of the resurrection.”

Peace be to all those in the Body of Christ.

Yes I'm familiar with that passage but it raises the question- Will the bonds of love between a married couple on earth be broken when they go to heaven?
 
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Yes I'm familiar with that passage but it raises the question- Will the bonds of love between a married couple on earth be broken when they go to heaven?


I believe here is something to confirm it below. I may be wrong but it's my understanding at present.

17 “See, I will create

new heavens and a new earth.

The former things will not be remembered,

nor will they come to mind.


Peace be to all those in the Body of Christ.
 
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Yes I'm familiar with that passage but it raises the question- Will the bonds of love between a married couple on earth be broken when they go to heaven?

In heaven I can only imagine that love that we feel toward one another will only be amplified, more intense and pure.

However, it's not sexual in any way... It's just pure love, and marriage as it were is unnecessary.
 
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Yes I'm familiar with that passage but it raises the question- Will the bonds of love between a married couple on earth be broken when they go to heaven?
No, they are not. The passage is being misinterpreted to mean something that it doesn't. Orthodox Christian Marriage Tradition has never taught that the Matrimonial bond between a faithful husband and wife is dissolved by death. That is an erroneous teaching that developed outside of the Orthodox Church.
 
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