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Back in December 2021, @The Liturgist started a thread on "denominational outliers": congregations that deviated too far from their denominational guidelines, or that took too many risks in their artwork, or that engaged in psychologially damaging practices (Compiling a list of potentially heterodox churches and denominational outliers)
This present thread is inspired by that one, but with a different focus. As I've tried to guide my young-adult children through the task of finding churches where they can grow and thrive, I've realized that congregations often communicate their beliefs and values through codewords in their literature and web sites. An older Christian probably knows what the codewords mean; a younger Christian may not. So, here's my draft of a guide to things to look for. I invite corrections and (especially) additions. I'm also tagging @Paidiske , since she expressed interest in a thread like this.
I'm assuming that the church seeker already knows the major denominational distinctives. Wikipedia will tell you that Presbyterians baptize infants and Baptists do not, for example. I'm trying to focus on items that differ between congregations, as well as things to look for in congregations not affiliated with any denomination.
1. Biblical Inerrancy:
Churches that affirm the inerrancy of the Bible will often have a statement of faith that speaks of the Bible as "infallible" or "inerrant" or "without error". They may describe themselves as "Bible believing".
Churches that do not accept the inerrancy of the Bible usually don't have a "non-inerrancy" statement anywhere, so this is harder to detect.
2. Attitudes toward women in the home:
"Egalitarian" is a common codeword used to describe a view of marriage in which men and women are equal partners, with no hierarchy. Unfortunately, churches that hold this view don't often state it in their literature; perhaps they take it for granted.
"Complementarian" is a common codeword used to describe a hierarchical view of marriage, in which husbands are the leaders and wives submit to their husband's leadership. Look for a statement of faith that uses words like "head" or "leader" to describe husbands, and that uses words like "submission" to describe wives. Some churches may link to the Danvers Statement on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (see cbmw.org).
3. Attitudes toward women in church leadership:
Churches that affirm women in leadership roles don't often state this explicitly in their literature. However, some clues are found in the church's actual leadership: Are any of the pastors/priests female? Are any of the lay leaders (elders, vestry members, etc.) female?
Churches that restrict women from holding leadership positions may not state this explicitly, but look at the language in the statement of faith. If pastors, elders, vestry members, etc., are describes as "men" rather than "people", then women are probably prohibited from holding these positions. Some churches may link to the Danvers Statement on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (see cbmw.org).
Note: Some churches allow women to teach male children but not male adults. These churches may have a female "youth minister" or "minister to children". Be careful about titles like this; they are not as affirming as they look.
4. Attitudes toward LGBTQ Christians:
Churches that welcome LGBTQ Christians, including those in same-sex marriages, at all levels of ministry will sometimes say this explicitly on their web site. Other indicators include: Pride flags displayed at the church or on the web site. Married gay clergy among the staff. In the UCC, the label "open and affirming".
Churches that prohibit same-sex marriage, or that forbid same-sex attraction altogether, often have language in their statement of faith about marriage being between a man and a woman. Sometimes, the statement of faith will explicitly list homosexuality as a form of immorality (e.g., the Baptist Faith and Message). Some churches may link to the Nashville statement (see cbmw.org).
5. Ethnic diversity:
Mercifully, it's been a long time since I've seen an explicit statement from a church excluding people of a particular racial or ethnic group.
Look at the pictures on the church's web site to get a sense of the racial and ethnic diversity in the congregation.
6. Social and community ministry:
Some churches value physical (not just spiritual) ministry to the community and the wider world. Look in the church's newsletter or calendar for participation in food pantries, soup kitchens, thrift stores, homeless shelters, building houses with Habitat for Humanity, and so forth. Some churches partner with regional or national organizations, while others work independently. The phrase "social justice" in a church's literature generally indicates that this kind of ministry is a priority for the church, though not all churches that do social ministry will use this wording.
7. Hidden denominational affiliation:
Some churches are affiliated with denominations but do not make that obvious in the church's name. That is, the church may have a name like "Main Street Community Church" or "Main Street Fellowship" instead of "Main Street Baptist Church". These churches will sometimes note their denominational affiliation in the fine print at the bottom of one of their web pages, or they may have a "history" section that mentions the denomination that created them.
Note that some congregations are affiliated with multiple denominations, and that some congregations are completely independent, with no denominational affiliation whatsoever.
8. Music
Churches vary in their music styles, even within denominations. Some churches favor guitars and synthesizers, generally providing the congregation with words to songs but no printed music. Some favor hymns, mostly written (roughly) between AD 1500-2000, with organ or piano accompaniment, and with hymnals provided to the congregation. Some use even older styles, such as Gregorian chant. Note that a congregation may use a variety of music styles at different services, or even within a single service.
Indications of music styles can be found in the pictures on the church's web site (what instruments are visible?) and in the service bulletins, if they are posted online (what songs or hymns are listed in the bulletin?)
Phrases such as "worship leader" or "contemporary" generally suggest the guitar-and-synthesizer style of music. The phrase "traditional" often means hymns.
Acknowledgements:
Thanks to seeking.IAM for noting the existence of churches that hide their denominational affiliation.
Thanks to public hermit for suggesting the phrase "Bible believing".
Thanks to DragonFox91 for suggesting the phrase "social justice".
Thanks to The Liturgist for mentioning variations in music.
These are my thoughts so far. I invite additions and corrections. Have I left out any important categories?
This present thread is inspired by that one, but with a different focus. As I've tried to guide my young-adult children through the task of finding churches where they can grow and thrive, I've realized that congregations often communicate their beliefs and values through codewords in their literature and web sites. An older Christian probably knows what the codewords mean; a younger Christian may not. So, here's my draft of a guide to things to look for. I invite corrections and (especially) additions. I'm also tagging @Paidiske , since she expressed interest in a thread like this.
I'm assuming that the church seeker already knows the major denominational distinctives. Wikipedia will tell you that Presbyterians baptize infants and Baptists do not, for example. I'm trying to focus on items that differ between congregations, as well as things to look for in congregations not affiliated with any denomination.
1. Biblical Inerrancy:
Churches that affirm the inerrancy of the Bible will often have a statement of faith that speaks of the Bible as "infallible" or "inerrant" or "without error". They may describe themselves as "Bible believing".
Churches that do not accept the inerrancy of the Bible usually don't have a "non-inerrancy" statement anywhere, so this is harder to detect.
2. Attitudes toward women in the home:
"Egalitarian" is a common codeword used to describe a view of marriage in which men and women are equal partners, with no hierarchy. Unfortunately, churches that hold this view don't often state it in their literature; perhaps they take it for granted.
"Complementarian" is a common codeword used to describe a hierarchical view of marriage, in which husbands are the leaders and wives submit to their husband's leadership. Look for a statement of faith that uses words like "head" or "leader" to describe husbands, and that uses words like "submission" to describe wives. Some churches may link to the Danvers Statement on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (see cbmw.org).
3. Attitudes toward women in church leadership:
Churches that affirm women in leadership roles don't often state this explicitly in their literature. However, some clues are found in the church's actual leadership: Are any of the pastors/priests female? Are any of the lay leaders (elders, vestry members, etc.) female?
Churches that restrict women from holding leadership positions may not state this explicitly, but look at the language in the statement of faith. If pastors, elders, vestry members, etc., are describes as "men" rather than "people", then women are probably prohibited from holding these positions. Some churches may link to the Danvers Statement on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood (see cbmw.org).
Note: Some churches allow women to teach male children but not male adults. These churches may have a female "youth minister" or "minister to children". Be careful about titles like this; they are not as affirming as they look.
4. Attitudes toward LGBTQ Christians:
Churches that welcome LGBTQ Christians, including those in same-sex marriages, at all levels of ministry will sometimes say this explicitly on their web site. Other indicators include: Pride flags displayed at the church or on the web site. Married gay clergy among the staff. In the UCC, the label "open and affirming".
Churches that prohibit same-sex marriage, or that forbid same-sex attraction altogether, often have language in their statement of faith about marriage being between a man and a woman. Sometimes, the statement of faith will explicitly list homosexuality as a form of immorality (e.g., the Baptist Faith and Message). Some churches may link to the Nashville statement (see cbmw.org).
5. Ethnic diversity:
Mercifully, it's been a long time since I've seen an explicit statement from a church excluding people of a particular racial or ethnic group.
Look at the pictures on the church's web site to get a sense of the racial and ethnic diversity in the congregation.
6. Social and community ministry:
Some churches value physical (not just spiritual) ministry to the community and the wider world. Look in the church's newsletter or calendar for participation in food pantries, soup kitchens, thrift stores, homeless shelters, building houses with Habitat for Humanity, and so forth. Some churches partner with regional or national organizations, while others work independently. The phrase "social justice" in a church's literature generally indicates that this kind of ministry is a priority for the church, though not all churches that do social ministry will use this wording.
7. Hidden denominational affiliation:
Some churches are affiliated with denominations but do not make that obvious in the church's name. That is, the church may have a name like "Main Street Community Church" or "Main Street Fellowship" instead of "Main Street Baptist Church". These churches will sometimes note their denominational affiliation in the fine print at the bottom of one of their web pages, or they may have a "history" section that mentions the denomination that created them.
Note that some congregations are affiliated with multiple denominations, and that some congregations are completely independent, with no denominational affiliation whatsoever.
8. Music
Churches vary in their music styles, even within denominations. Some churches favor guitars and synthesizers, generally providing the congregation with words to songs but no printed music. Some favor hymns, mostly written (roughly) between AD 1500-2000, with organ or piano accompaniment, and with hymnals provided to the congregation. Some use even older styles, such as Gregorian chant. Note that a congregation may use a variety of music styles at different services, or even within a single service.
Indications of music styles can be found in the pictures on the church's web site (what instruments are visible?) and in the service bulletins, if they are posted online (what songs or hymns are listed in the bulletin?)
Phrases such as "worship leader" or "contemporary" generally suggest the guitar-and-synthesizer style of music. The phrase "traditional" often means hymns.
Acknowledgements:
Thanks to seeking.IAM for noting the existence of churches that hide their denominational affiliation.
Thanks to public hermit for suggesting the phrase "Bible believing".
Thanks to DragonFox91 for suggesting the phrase "social justice".
Thanks to The Liturgist for mentioning variations in music.
These are my thoughts so far. I invite additions and corrections. Have I left out any important categories?
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